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Glendower, 43

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About Me

DISCLOSURE: when I first joined meetville, I was not ready to date... I was just trolling. As such, my age on this profile is wrong. I'm 47, not 43. * * * Welcome, weary dating site traveler. If you've been on here for any amount of time, you've probably spotted the irony of looking for someone special, yet having to trudge through profiles and *** homogeneous that it seems all communication comes through a Mad Libs filter. "If you want to know anything, just ask"? That would be great if I knew who the person was (I doubt they are omnipotent, so I hesitate to posit a query about string theory). "No games and no liars"? As if some game-playing liar is going to be sitting at home reading it and think, 'ah well I guess I won't write HER.I don't mean to sound lacking in empathy - empathy is, after all, one of my favorite activities. There is a certain unnatural salesmanship that goes into writing a self-summary and packing it with pictures that look like you have a show on the Discovery Channel. We all do it. I did it before I remade this profile, which I am writing because I've lost interest in selling myself as if this was the emotional equivalent to ebay. But those kinds of profiles kick in the teeth the idea we're all vast museums of incredible stories and experiences, both good, bad and meh. For the record, I don't say meh in real life. So who am I, you ask (if you didn't, pretend that you did)? My first love is being a writer (this profile notwithstanding) and I find great inspiration at every turn. I am fair-minded, which means you don't have to be my mirror image (playwright, atheist, ex-husband, 9-to-5er, gardener, biker, second- Standards, schmandards. In fact, the more different you are from me, the more we'll actually have to talk about. And if you're equally fair-minded, we might have a laugh (another favorite activity). But it would be nice. And I'm very open to the possibilities. If I would say I have a "type", it's the kind of woman who is as well. Something new.Drinks are awesome but there's zero risk involved and it doesn't intrigue me. If I wanted to play it 100% safe, I'd not be on a dating site to begin with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Julien

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I am a laid back man, who is looking for an attractive female that would enjoy the simple things in life. I am past the days of bars and partying and would love to find someone who is looking for a meaningful relationship built on trust and mutual respect. I work hard and would love to find someone to share my personal time with....I just need that special lady to share it with.I would like to find someone who will except me for the person that I am and not what they think they can change me into. Change and growth is good in a relationship but if you don't like that person that I have become after 40 years then it probably wouldn't work. I want one special woman not multiple partners and I am looking for the same in a partner. If you would be interested in talking, send a message. The first date depends on each individual person. I think coffee or a beer and some conversation would be a good start.

  • Rube

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    I am a 41 y/o divorced male. I have 2 boys ages 11&12 that I love to spend every chance I can with. I like to fish, hike, mountain bike,kayak,boating,golfing,camping,campfires. and just about anything that has to do with the outdoors. I own a camp on a lake in northern N.H... I try to go there every weekend. Especially on my weekends with my kids. I like all kinds of music. It ranges from Easy Listening to Heavy Metal. I like it all except most Country.. Though I can put up with listening to it. I am looking for a woman that I can go out and have a great time with.I'm looking for a woman who is looking for the same.Nothing too serious for now,as I just got out of a 16 yr relationship (14yrs married). Though I would never turn away from someone that is perfect for me. Im a firm believer that sometimes the best things in life do happen unexpectedly.. But I'm pretty easy going, and can get along with just about anyone. If interested,drop me a line, and see if I bite your hook! ;) Something very casual.. Coffee? A drink?? Lunch??? Dinner???? We can decide whatever strikes our mood...

  • Ebenezer

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Nothing complicated here. I'm a Dad, runner, golfer and beach lover. I travel quit a bit for work, but I also work from home. So, when I'm not traveling, I'm home. I spend a lot of time in the yard and tinkering around the house....I love to tinker :) I'm a little bit of a home body, but definitely not a couch potato and definitely not boring. I love to run or bike on the beach, swim in the ocean (yes, with the sharks :), and try to play a round of golf a week. I would love to find a woman that enjoys to play or is open to learning. Kayaking is also something I love to do. My idea of a good night out is a Sushi dinner and after dinner drink somewhere outside and on the water with a live band. At home, I like to cook while enjoying a good glass of wine or IPA...then, if I can't find a good movie, I'll settle for a rerun on the discovery, history or science channel. Yes, I'm a documentary junkie, but I've been known to get sucked into a sitcom or reality show (against my will of course :). One day, I'm going to retire and buy a little bed and breakfast on the beach. So that's about it for now. Let me know if you want to know more. Thanks for reading. I'm open. Somewhere very casual (with a backdoor) LOL

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