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Glendower, 43

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About Me

DISCLOSURE: when I first joined meetville, I was not ready to date... I was just trolling. As such, my age on this profile is wrong. I'm 47, not 43. * * * Welcome, weary dating site traveler. If you've been on here for any amount of time, you've probably spotted the irony of looking for someone special, yet having to trudge through profiles and *** homogeneous that it seems all communication comes through a Mad Libs filter. "If you want to know anything, just ask"? That would be great if I knew who the person was (I doubt they are omnipotent, so I hesitate to posit a query about string theory). "No games and no liars"? As if some game-playing liar is going to be sitting at home reading it and think, 'ah well I guess I won't write HER.I don't mean to sound lacking in empathy - empathy is, after all, one of my favorite activities. There is a certain unnatural salesmanship that goes into writing a self-summary and packing it with pictures that look like you have a show on the Discovery Channel. We all do it. I did it before I remade this profile, which I am writing because I've lost interest in selling myself as if this was the emotional equivalent to ebay. But those kinds of profiles kick in the teeth the idea we're all vast museums of incredible stories and experiences, both good, bad and meh. For the record, I don't say meh in real life. So who am I, you ask (if you didn't, pretend that you did)? My first love is being a writer (this profile notwithstanding) and I find great inspiration at every turn. I am fair-minded, which means you don't have to be my mirror image (playwright, atheist, ex-husband, 9-to-5er, gardener, biker, second- Standards, schmandards. In fact, the more different you are from me, the more we'll actually have to talk about. And if you're equally fair-minded, we might have a laugh (another favorite activity). But it would be nice. And I'm very open to the possibilities. If I would say I have a "type", it's the kind of woman who is as well. Something new.Drinks are awesome but there's zero risk involved and it doesn't intrigue me. If I wanted to play it 100% safe, I'd not be on a dating site to begin with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joshuafeltner

    Online

    Man. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-19

    I live near red carpet if want to text like add me on snp just text me I kinda cant pay for something if someone wants to meet anytime of the day I'm up

  • Mead

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    ok take 2. im an easy going individual,like to do things spur of the moment when is applicable. I have a 2 and a half year old little boy who is my reason for all I do. I love to play golf no I will not be challenging for a world title anytime soon. Love my tigers and red wings. There is a lot more but wanna save something to discuss later. If u have no picture plz don't message while looks are not everything I think you must have a physical attraction Does it matter you didn't read this far anyhow!

  • Ozzie

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    ... Don't settle. We both deserve sincerity, honesty, loyalty... I read a lot of skepticism in girls profiles on here. Maybe it's warranted, I don't know. If you want something meaningful, you're going to have to take the risk of being vulnerable at some point. Now I'm not talking true vulnerability on a first contact or even a date... but if you say you don't want a player, but you approach every possible relationship with a high level of distrust, only a player will continue to pursue you. You will attract exactly what you don't want. We all have a little baggage & we've all been burnt. I'm looking for someone who has the strength to trust again. It's scary, but we will earn it & we deserve it. My baggage is minimal. :)I'm a business owner who enjoys dining out, comedy clubs, concerts, my motorcycle, movies at home or out, and more for your regular type of stuff. But for those special experiences, I like to be bold... I've skydived, scuba dived, driven race cars, took flying lessons, rode my Harley across the country, recorded a CD of my own music, etc. I've never really had a "bucket list" because when I decide I want to do something, I make it happen. I love to laugh (I know, who doesn't). I play guitar at church. I love to sing! I like a lot of different kids of music, but my favorite is something with soulful vocals. I have 2 daughters (age 7 &***that mean the world to me. They are such good kids. Kind, caring, funny, well mannered... I get to see them almost everyday, because they get off the school bus at my house & their mom picks them up later. I have a good relationship with their mom, meaning no drama, not meaning there's still a chance of getting back together. When I think of long term possibilities... If you have kids (& I don't mind at all if you do), they must be nice to my daughters. That's really the only "deal breaker" that I have as far as starting to date. Of course, I have talked to my single friends about their dating nightmares & I may come up with new "deal breakers" after I have a few of those disasters they talk about lol. Well, this is my first try at this online dating thing, so if you're interested in learning more I'd love to talk to you.PS: POF's little chemistry test didn't really represent me very well when I started to read the results, so don't put too much stock in that. :) I kinda like the idea of a lunch date to start off. It's casual, and has a built in time clock so we don't have to stay long if we don't click. It's enough time to see if we want a second date, and not so long that our friends have to text us to see if we need an "emergency" to call us away from the date lol.

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