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Shemaiah, 43

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About Me

I really like sharing my life with that special person it makes life so much more fun, whats the point if there isn't anyone there to experiance the good, bad, and inbetween with you? So I'm giving this a try. I hope it’s a good thing.First thing, attraction is the starting point not trying to be a jerk just being honest! I like a woman that is in good shape and likes to look good for her man, it's a lot better health wise too! Most people don't believe I'm 42, I have acttualy had to pull out my drivers licence to prove it to some of them. LOL I have five kids, 14 to 22. I'm very laid back. But honestly I enjoy just going out to the mountains and leaving it all behind.’s hard to hide the tears in my eyes, and I'm really not afraid to show my emotions when I'm with some one I know cares. I love to cuddle and massage, and run my fingers through hair.(So if you have a bubble; I hope once you know me you let me in.) :-) Oh and hugs and holding hands are a must, I guess you could say I'm kind of touchy feely? but in a good way! I don't know why but I have been told I'm a hopless romantic? Ok enough with the mushy stuff us guy's don't like to realy admit to. LOLI do the best I can and even better when I'm asked to do things, I can't read minds, and need to be reminded, but no one is perfect, and I don't expect them to be. I'm to honest some times, I find it very hard to lie, even little white lie's and hate being lied to. I hope I'm not being to open and forward, but I feel a relationship is better that way. Anyway if there is more you would like to know ask. :-)P. S. I've been told I look better in person? I guess I'm not very photogenic. LOL First date, Hanging out together, maybe a cup of coffee, lunch? I don't know really, just a chance to talk and see how it goes. Then it's on, hikes in the mountains to have a picnic, lying in an open field talking about everything, camping overnight to stare at the stars. Concerts, movies, even theater :) what ever trips your trigger and melts your butter! LOL Even if it's meeting at a park to have lunch together just to spend a little bit of time with each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jerrell

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I'm educated, have a job, live in a house and make friends easily. I am a confident, honest & funny guy who has three awesome kids with who I have a ton of fun with and greatly enjoy all my time with them.One major interest out side of work is food and beer! I brew my own beer and am a certified beer judge. Yes, I get people to pay money for me to judge how good their beer is, to win blue ribbons at beer competitions. It's a fun hobby. I like cooking, mostly because I get to eat what I make and I love good food! I wanted to be a rock-star when I was a teenager, so I learned to play bass and guitar. I never became famous, but still love music and play bass at a local christian church.I'm looking for a fun happy woman who generally knows what she wants out of life. You should message me if you are:Looking for someone 100% real (No BS)Looking for a confident man who is not insecure and jealous.Wants a man who treats you with respectLikes to laugh and have fun most of the timeLikes public or private displays of affectionLooking to be happy and doesn't sweat the small stuff. 1. Go out somewhere (restaurant, park, pub)2. Have great conversation with lots of laughing and smiling.3. Realize how much fun we have together.4. First comes love... then comes marriage.... no more baby carriages though.

  • Willie

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Wow, this looks easy, until you stare at a blank page for an hour! How do I do this without seeming****, arrogant and full of myself? I mean, I know I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread, but it usually takes my date about 10 minutes of personal interaction to figure it out. I guess the purpose here is to get noticed, while maintaining honesty and integrity, or is the purpose simply to get noticed???Everybody writes the same crap! They are all funny, caring, optimistic, generous, a gentleman, blah blah blah!!! So I won't bore you with the same old. The fact is that all men are here to meet women and all women are here to meet men. You get to a certain age and the club scene starts to get old, especially here in Vegas, so you're sitting around the house watching TV, and a commercial for an online dating site with attractive couples holding hands comes on, and here we are:I won't give you a grocery list of character descriptions, like loyal, honest, caring, loving, blah blah... if I had to describe myself, which I seem to have to, maybe I'm the opposite? I'm sarcastic, opinionated, selfish, and not politically correct! I speak my mind, in an effort to keep all in earshot entertained. I don't sugarcoat, because really, "it is what it is". Most people try to make a good first impression, but they come off as being fake and conformist. You don't get to know the real person for a long time, the "real you" starts to shine through around the third date or later, if you ever get that far? I don't believe in wasting all that time, so what you see is what you get!!!!The first thing we look at is the pics, and we wonder, am I attracted to this person? Could I be seen out with them? Would I have sex with them? If any of the above are a maybe, you might read their bio. Well I'm no different, if I'm not attracted to you, I won't be reaching out. It's shallow, but it's honest! Having said that, if your bio puts me to sleep, or if it sounds like the same old BS, I won't be messaging you either, (unless you're incredibly HOT!!!) lolLets face it, none of us are here for one night stands???..... guys don't stick around for a third date if they think they are going to be "just friends". We are all here to meet new people, and try them out to see if we click with them. We really can't tell all that much from words jotted down on a page, but I guess the upside here is we do get a bit of information allowing us to spot the definite NO's. What else can I say about myself???I have to be experienced to be appreciated, and it's likely to be a memorable experience, no matter what!Once I get to know someone, and I open up, (it may take a while) I can be a very good and loyal friend. If I can find someone that I believe is my soulmate, which is my ultimate goal, (and I do believe she is out there) I will never let her go! Dinner, movie, drinks. Good conversation, get to know each other and see where it can lead?

  • Heck

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Here for the first time to meet new people.

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