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About Me

I have a good idea of what I am not looking for in a significant other but no idea of exactly what I am looking for (that makes sense in my mind...lol).Fit / Healthy: Its hard to be fit at 40+, I live it and respect in others. I understand 40 years old isn't 20 and don't expect you to be. I am ok with a little extra but if your ***lbs. over weight I am not ok with that. Medically stable: If your drink heavily are popping pills just to make it through the day or psychologically unstable, forget it, not happening, been there done it twice, got the t shirt, divorce papers and scars. Smoking: I quit 12 years ago, can not and will not deal with being around it. About me: 5' 10", ***lbs., have my own house, truck, motorcycle and job, I work to live and not live to work, I will do anything for people I love, I keep my word if humanly possible, I have NEVER cheated on anyone, I'd really like to find someone who compliments my life style and I theirs. I have done 11 sprint distance triathlons but missed the last 2 years due to shoulder issues. I still try and work out regularly and would love someone who can keep up or even challenge me to keep up with them.I am happy with who and what I am, worked hard to get where I am physically and financially. (not rich or ripped)I have 4 children who are the most important people in my life, 25, 22, 10yr old daughters and 17yr old boy, joint custody of 10yr old, other 3 are on their own.I have time to date and will make time for someone I am serious about if you can't or won't I am not your man.This is dating and supposed to be fun. Happy Fishing!!! First meeting: Starbucks or drinks during day, safe, public and relaxed.Dates: Dinner, Drinks, Movie then whatever happens:)Main event is a fun date, laser tag, bowling, games and drinks.I am open to pretty much anything and don't believe it should be on the guy to plan every thing. Got something you want or like to do? tell me and we will do it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

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