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Delmer, 44

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About Me

Okay, first things first. If you are a woman and I messaged you, I HAVE READ your profile. Being a guy, I was likely attracted initially by your looks, and then you passed my "profile analysis" test when I read your profile (you'll need a top secret security clearance before I can explain what this test entails). By messaging you, I'm interested in seeing if we're compatible and am interested in talking for awhile through this web site or meeting for coffee/drink/food and seeing if we have similar interests, goals, future plans, etc.I am not fake. I do not want a one night stand or a **** buddy. Honestly, a guy can get that type of sex many places in town or in brothels in nearby counties. I want a REAL relationship, and that takes time to allow us to figure out whether we're compatible.I don't smoke, don't gamble, don't do drugs, and don't have any "addictive behavior" in my genes. I drink minimally/socially.I have three ***kids, and they live primarily with my ex-wife. I've been divorced since mid***, although we've been separated since early ***. My relationship with the kids and my ex-wife is good. We were married 16 years. I originally thought it was going to be my "forever" marriage; that's how I was raised.W.- I've been here since early ***. I had my own law practice from ***, and am looking to have one again in the future.Personally, I'm very secure in who I am and what I believe. I am not a needy individual and am essentially no-drama. I'm secure enough about myself so that if you feel that there is no "spark" after a first meet-and-greet or you don't think we're compatible, I won't play the role of creeper/stalker like some guys on here may have in the past (I've had discussions with women on online dating sites; a lot of them seem to have dealt with at least one weirdo who won't accept the fact that a woman is not interested). If for some reason you are just not feeling a spark and/or compatability, I'll just pull up my big boy pants and move on with my life.Over the years, I've developed a good sense of humor. I try to use this frequently, as it helps break the ice and also shows people I am not some stuffy old fart that sits behind a desk all the time. I like trying to make people laugh this way; it makes me happy if I can make other people laugh. So I am totally cool if you have a cat, dog, or both. I will likely get them in the future. Good first dates (any of these I think is great): ***Coffee, ***drinks, ***food, ***dueling pianos bar, ***park

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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