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Johnathon
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Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
42, SWM here wanting to meet a honest caring affectionate clean woman with a good sense of humor. A sense of humor is very important to me, I love to laugh and make people laugh. I like movies, dining out, gas burning trips in the country and a lot more, but having a special person to cuddle up with and share those things with makes the world a much better place. I also love all kinds of music and enjoy a good PC game. But not Polka music..I do not enjoy Polka..never will. I also like kids even though I have none of my own. I do not mind slowdancing with my girl to sappy love songs but I dont like any other dancing at all so if your looking for a danceing fool im not the one. Im very clean but not obsesively and do not want to be the only one cleaning up. I also like cooking and dining out. I am looking for a meaningfull one on one relationship. Someone to make number 1 in my life before anything ! In my book commitment is not a 4 letter word but I promise I am not looking to pounce into anything serious right away. Honesty and faithfullness are musts. I am willing to take things slow. Just meet or talk on the phone and let things fall where they may. It would be nice to have a woman whom I can sit down with on a Thurs and go through the good times and pick out a play to see or movie or something. I dont mind a homebody either but ya got to get out sometimes. Just a quick note on kids. I understand fully your kids always come first and I would not want it any other way. But if it means I let my kids walk all over me and your going to have to deal with it...that is not acceptable. I have delt with that to many times and its very sad to see a mother scared of her own kids and Im powerless to do anything, or im a bad guy for saying their kid is a spoiled brat after he tells his mom to F$%# herself and she does nothing about it.....Im not going there again. Kids should respect their mothers and if she decides to date they need to respect him too as an adult. I am not looking to replace anyones father but if you have young kids I am more than happy to help *** good value system in them and treat them as my own if things go that far and they need a man figure in their lives. I know I sound harsh but I know exactly what kind of person I am looking for and have to be that way so it will work out. I am actually very flexible on most things and believe honesty and comprimise are the cornerstones of any healthy relationship. We all want to feel like we matter. I will not settle and neither should any of you. I know your out there. After a few phone conversations and e-mails meet someplace for a drink or two ...bar (even though Im not a bar person) , restraunt or a park. Even for coffee. I first meet should be casual like meeting at work or something..then onward maybe...:) Or even just meet and go for a walk. Just relax and talk. Im very easy to get along with. I am looking for the long term real deal. But I always welcome a new friend into my life even if things do not develop romanticly. Just get together with no wild expectations to talk and listen. A first meeting with me would't be a movie . Then how could we talk and get to know eachother. :) Good luck to everyone.
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Yong
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Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
I work hard and I travel some for work, but I like to have good quality time when I am home. I enjoy cooking and good conversations. Pretty much into enjoying life and meeting new people. Not into drama.. just keeping it easy and enjoying life. I am pretty basic when it comes to my everyday. Go out for coffee or a bite to eat. Preferably some place outside where we can have a chance to talk and get to know each other. Maybe a walk around the lake or a bike ride.. or a coffee at Starbucks.
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Duff
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Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50
I have my own business, I pay my own rent, I have my own car (I like them FAST!) sometimes my socks don't match (when I wear them) and love my kids - they're fantastic! I am a confident, attractive and humorous person (at least I think so, my kids just roll their eyes). Food: I love food. I love to cook it, eat it and occasionally wear it (especially if I have on a crisp, clean new white shirt!)A Few Things I refuse to do without:LaughterExerciseFamily (especially my kids!)Close FriendsRomanceS... whoops, that one's none of your business, yet ;-)On a typical Friday night I am: Hanging with my kids (on my weekends), hitting some event happening in the area, or relaxing with a good movie.Enough about me. Here are a few questions concerning the female gender you ladies may be able to help with, for *** do women have so many shoes? Especially the ones that make you about 7'5"2) What is the obsession with the nails?3) Why do you always ask the Jeans question (Do I look fat in these?). You spring it on us like a big game hunter stalking its prey. Do you really want the truth, do you want us to tell you what you want to hear or should we just run for cover and pretend like we didn't hear it? All kidding aside, who am I looking for? A woman who is sexy, smart, is into fitness and loves to laugh and have fun...A woman who knows what she wants, is independent, positive and has a presence about herA woman who loves to watch sports (especially football and KU basketball), dance and can have just as much fun at a black tie event as she does at a backyard BBQ.And especially.... a woman that, when we're together, there is no denying the electricity in the air from the chemistry between us... and see what happens!