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JayeOnline
Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51
I'm looking for someone to share some good times with, whether it's biking, skating, hiking, checking out the latest exhibit at the art or natural history museums, a nice dinner and a show at the comedy club, or just seeing a movie and watching a game at the bar. I spend much of my time on refurb projects on my old house, inline skating, mountain climbing, or working my way through a giant Netflix queue that will probably never bottom out.I enjoy discussing current events and history, politics and religion, culture and anything else that helps to put the pieces together and to figure out how the world works. I don't really see any subjects as off limits but I can respect the boundaries of others. I'm generally clueless about fashion, celebrity gossip, or home decor but I keep an open mind and would love to have someone explain that dumb stuff.Music: I like just about anything except most Country and Hip Hop, but there are exceptions even there. I'll tune into the pop stations to see what's fresh, and others times explore old songs that make me nostalgic for a time before I existed. I often fixate on a few albums and play them scores of times until I hear the music in my dreams.Food: Anything good! Sushi is usually my first choice but I'm up for Mexican, Ethiopian, Chinese, Indian, and lots of other stuff if it's well done. Exploring new spots is always exciting. Sometimes "food" winds up just being a bunch of beer and pub grub, or lots of tequila and lime wedges.I can be a bit of a brat (life is short and it's important to have fun) but am also comfortable being serious about things when the situation calls for it. I like finding out what makes people click and seeing what I can bring to a friendship or relationship that has some value to the other person. My goals in life are educating myself, seeking professional achievements, traveling to exotic places, meeting new people, but mostly I just want to figure out what I'm going to be when I grow up.I put one lie in my profile. How many in yours? I like to meet somewhere casual for drinks and just see how things go.
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ItamarOnline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
ReadingClassic carsOutdoorsCold brew Note: If you only want a text buddy, I am not the one.
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KourtneyOnline
Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48
1. ConfidenceTake it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" …stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself.2. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on.3. UnmaterialisticYes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you.4. SpontaneityOne of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment.5. Laid-BackWhat's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. ***, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. We're not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other.6. PlayfulnessGuys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and *** are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac?7. SensualityWe've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet.…and expressing that sensually to your partner8. HonestyIf he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup.9. IndependenceDating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it.10. SupportiveAs clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother. Never a movie .... First date should be coffee somewhere we can have a nice long chat and get to know each other.