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Rod, 42
United States, Kentucky, Union

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About Me

I am a grounded, happy, educated, loyal, honest, and optimistic man with a BIG heart. My family (especially my children) and friends mean the world to me. I am perfectly comfortable in shorts and flip flops or a suit when required, but I do prefer the shorts and flip flops. I can hold my own in a conversation about a wide variety of subjects and I can actually sound intelligent most of the time. I will listen to (and enjoy) almost every type of music depending on my mood and what I am doing, even country has its place once and awhile.A perfect day is spent by the water with anyone that can make me smile. Nothing is better than hanging with the ones that make me laugh. A bbq and a few drinks should be included for good measure. I am self employed and have a fair amount of freedom when not with my kids.If you are genuine, HAPPY with who you are and what you have, you love kids and when you are with them you adore them, you are a good role model, you love to smile and laugh, you are hopeful about the future, have zero drama with your ex (if there is one), you take good care of yourself and the ones you care about. Then we definitely have something in common.Happy fishing. We all need to find someone that will help us grow. Someone who can challenge us physically and mentally...someone that make us work harder, seek deeper within ourselves and helps to create incredible memories. Something simple and casual. Drinks, coffee, drinks, lunch, drinks. No particular order just as long as we get to know each other a little better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Greek Family & Kids
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