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Justy, 41
United States, Kentucky, Union

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About Me

So, the best way I can figure to describe myself is to tell a few short stories about myself...As a child, I can remember feeling sorry for the lightbulb in our living room lamp. I remember thinking how hot it was, and how uncomfortable it must have been. So I decided I would try to make it feel better by using the spray bottle to cool it with water. It blew up in my face. I think I learned that day that empathy is good, but too much can hurt you.Where I work there is a tree out back where people will go to take a break. I also have a lemon tree in my backyard that makes countless lemons all year. I gathered up a bunch of lemons and brought them to work to secretly spread around the tree there. Since that tree is not a fruit tree, I knew it would cause confusion. I let a friend in on the joke, and we both had to hold back our laughter as people walked around the office holding lemons with perplexed looks on their faces. I know it is silly, but it was funny.(another memory from my childhood…)I sat in the shallow water at the beach with my bucket. Small fish were swimming all around me. I placed my bucket on its side in the water and sat still for what seemed like an eternity; watching as the fish swam up to look in curiosity. I was waiting for one to swim in so that I could scoop it up. I let some swim in and out again, until the one I wanted made its way into my bucket. I scooped it up and watched it swim around for a while. And then I let it go. My first date was a long time ago. :) If you really want to know about it, I'd be happy to tell you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Metal Camping / Hiking Indonesian Irish Portuguese Baseball Dance Rodeo Volleyball Spirituality
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