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Arvin, 42
United States, Kentucky, Stanton

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About Me

I am a person one must journey through to discover the truth within...I am very spiritual and believe that a life lived through the heart is a life truly lived.I believe that one's purity to self is one's true beauty.My greatest quality is the passion within... I want to feel everything in life, the good, bad, right, or wrong, it's through these things that enhance our ability to know what it is to live, love, laugh, and cry, creating true passion for those who take them all in and discover their creative purpose.I am not one who see's everything as evil, but more of a lack of understanding.I am in search of the perfect love (unconditional). I don't believe it is fair to expect someone to change in order for it to work. If you have to change for someone or be changed then one is form fitting and in time the shape changes and it is stretching things to the limit. It is easy at first to sacrifice yourself being you, because all you can think about is that other person and how they make you feel...But the truth is it isn't you and so therefore it isn't natural. It requires work to be someone your not and the thing with work is eventually exhaustion sets in. That is why I believe that I need to be me, you need to be you, then shall we let the art of unconditional love paint the picture of what our lives are to be. I am sure no matter what it will be beautiful ;) This song best describes what I bring to a relationshipLittle big town "Bring it on home"My desire is to be her escape. The place she runs to when the world is closing in around her.I want to be her energy that lights her life for the world to see.Love a woman right and she will never take flight. She will stand and fight till things are right.Keep her smiling and your smile will know no end. There is nothing more beautiful then seeing her smile and knowing your the reason for *** song really sums up what I am looking for in a womanSade -By your side First, I want to say that I am looking for that person I can just connect with intellectually and spiritually as a friend. I am not really down with the expectation thing... I prefer someone who allows me to open up as opportunity presents itself. Don't worry I have no problem with opening up... Just sometimes it feels like an interrogation room or going through customs with a piece of gum stuck to your shoe that collected some white powder called sugar from the airport coffee shop. I like the natural flow of things.To me sexy is undressing slowly... But none the less reaching that bare nakedness. So I myself want someone who is naked and unashamed. I believe a soulmate is only found when two people can journey to the remotest places of one another's being, to those secret places and undress... Removing those things that the world has deemed as shameful, a failure, or worthless, and discover that they are loved regardless.In the beginning - They were naked and unashamed. Wanna get naked? First DateAs the days heat is broken and a cool breeze blows in revealing that a change is graciously upon us.With a little over an hour or so before the moon plays tribute by reflecting the beauty of the sun’s light in an array of oranges and blues. We arrive at the park, where every Saturday they have what they call “movie in the park”. Opening the trunk is a picnic basket, small cooler, blanket, and a body pillow. Making our way over to where the movie will be played we find the perfect spot for a picnic, as well as watching the movie. In the cooler is bottled water and a bottle of wine. As we break bread together my shyness mixed with nervousness begins to subside releasing the dam that held back the flow of my words. There soon after the shallowness of our conversation headed for deeper waters, causing us to lose sight of the exterior of things and now into the interior. Cleaning up after the meal that left us completely satisfied, not to much, yet not to little, just enough to remove any disturbance that would distract us from the moment. After finishing up we still have roughly forty five minutes, so leaving the cooler we take the basket back to the car all the while still carrying on in stimulating conversation we unknowingly venture out in unisons as if we were marching to the same beat. Strolling through the park and feeling so connected that it was as though we had known each other forever. If not for the setting of the sun warning us why we were there, we might have lost our way.Walking back to our spot we stop at a restroom, just to make sure we eliminate any attempt to channel our thoughts elsewhere. After returning to our site I remember I have these off fan thingies that will keep us from being attacked by those bloodsucking nuisance called mosquitoes. So I run back to the car and retrieve them and on my return I come across the most beautiful thing I had seen all night, and that was you smiling at me. I could feel it.. not just see it. Looking down I seen that you had already poured us a couple of glasses of wine. After getting comfortable I reach inside a little compartment and pull out two fortune cookies in hopes that the energy that had been flowing would speak something special about the moment we were sharing. Then came the sound of movie trailers and still reeling from the moment I ask you if I could kiss you., and with an even bigger grin you said; I thought you’d never ask. That setting the stage for a night of cuddling under countless stars and a cool breeze that made cuddling much more meaningful.As the movie came to an end we found ourselves not ready to call it a night. We pack

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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