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Alysdair, 41

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About Me

I was on here before and didn't have much luck. I met more women that wanted to be pen pals rather than meet in person. If I did get the chance to meet someone they didn't look anything like their picture. Very frustrating. But Im gonna give it another go. ;-)Im a 41 year old father of one child. I love my daughter to bits and she's daddys lil girl. I have shared custody and love spending time with her. It would be nice to meet someone with a child as well. Not a necessity for me but I think sharing and understanding the role as a parent is an amazing experience that has definitely changed me and my outlook on life.Something only a parent can understand.Im not gonna go on a huge speel and write an essay here as Id like to save it for a first date. I live a pretty simple life. Nothing fancy or extravagant. I work full time and have been employed at the same place for over ten years. I have a child I see every other weekend. I take my role as a father very seriously. Not so that Its not fun, but I want to be a power of example. And because I have a lil girl I want the woman in my life to be a positive influence.I love all kinds of music, animals and enjoying the outdoors. Working out is a big factor in my life. I do quite a bit of it to relieve stress and stay youthful. I believe in physical attraction and if its not there then its not there. Its not everything but being attracted physically is important to me. Obviously connecting with life interests is important too and it would be nice to make both of those connections with someone.I am an honest guy and take pride in the fact that I have never cheated on any girl I've ever been with. I think someone that has says alot about them. Not interested in women that have. I love a woman with a great sense of humour and a positive outlook and maybe this time around will be a positive experience. Looking forward to meeting that special woman. ;-) A first date for me could be a coffee at Tims, a drink somewhere in the market or a hike somewhere. Where isn't important but with whom and a connection would be nice along with some.great laughs!! ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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