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Brendan, 41

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Hi ladiesI'm really here to talk to you ladies.I've met a woman on here and such a nice woman at that. She had pics on her profile that either was from a distance or in one way or another hiding part of her face.As I talked to her she would tell me a little about her last relationship and how her ex was mentally abusive to her.Telling her she was ugly and fat and just the words that would stab your heart. I need to tell you ladies that could be going through the same thing that this friend had told me. Your all beautiful and always remember that. I told this woman that thinks is ugly and overweight because of her ex saying it for years, a man that says hurtful words to woman is only saying things like that because he's insecure with his life so unfortunately he takes it out on his spouse.I also told this woman that when you wake up in the morning, walk over to the mirror and really look at yourself and say good morning beautiful. Just try it everyday for a week and if it doesn't work then do it again and again until you figure out that you really are beautiful. ;)Be happy with yourself and the person your with. If your not happy with that person, then that person is not for you.Be positive all the time. Life is not meant to be sad and unhappy all the time. Life is meant to be happy and to live your life stress free. Never let a man treat you like your nothing because your everything and always be happy. Remember your all beautiful. Ok a little about me. I love animals to death. I'm a sensasitive person to others. I'm just a normal guy who loves my family and friends. I work hard, ambitious , positive, being happy . Life is good :). Well I hope that anything I said helps some of you. There's a pic on my profile of a flower I noticed today on sept 8 growing on my veranda. That is a flower of life. I have never in my life see something so beautiful as that. All you ladies are just as beautiful so remember that when you see this flower. P.s to all the woman that love animals and the ones who's careers involve animals, I love you all. One more thing, I have tattoos but just like people say , don't judge a book by its cover, I am a great person, smart, took English lit in university, many private courses, and believe it or not I'm a certified law clerk. And a very compassionate person towards animals. To all you women that are high on themselves that are looking for a nice guy, stop dating jack asses that think that are high on themselves , take the time to read someone's profile. You know what attracts me to a woman? There eyes tell a lot before I even read there profile and sure enough everything I thought of that woman was true when I did read there profile. Good luck to all of you and hope that what your looking for is here or out there. A first date should be decided by 2 people so ill leave it open.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

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