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Geoffrey, 45
United States, Kentucky, Paintsville

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About Me

Hi! Thanks for scrolling down this far!Bottom-line: I’m here because I ultimately want to spend time with my best friend in a monogamous relationship where we treat each other with respect, feeling, honesty, and listen to each other’s opinions & desires as we make decisions together. I want to fall in love, and put in the effort to stay that way forever!…Now, meetville suggests starting by sharing 4 (pretty simple) things with you:1. That my goals/aspirations include: tightening up my core now that I’ve succeeded in losing 20 lbs; taking care of my 14-year-old furry best-friend as long as I still can to pay back all the trust & joy he’s brought me from a pup; to in time get back out in the world and do more volunteering similar to a few years back; and also that I’m ready to find & share true equality, love, understanding, pure fun, balance, and respect with a quality lady.2. What makes me unique: I don’t drink (alcohol, for medical reasons) yet I’m fine if you do socially, and I still have fun and know how to relax; I have a very profitable business yet only work half the year because quality time away from work is a priority too; I’m male yet really have no interest in professional sports (but I’m happy to BE sporty – tennis, ball, canoeing, etc. – doing them with you); we can share serious thoughts to change the world yet have giggle-fits sharing favorite cartoon moments; I don’t have kids of my own yet still yearn to become part of a loving family (either step-related or new); I don’t want “the latest” toys yet still seek to find quality in simple things; I have worn a 3-piece suit in a corporate boardroom yet also wings & a tutu in the same room; I’m 95% flexible & adventurous yet specific in things lacking respect I will not tolerate; I’ll try to take you passionately wherever you want to go yet never for a second stop respecting you as the quality, equal lady in my life. So, from what I’ve seen/heard, just 2 or 3 things from this list combine to put me in 0.01% and this only starts my “unique” list! ;-)3. I babbled for the last one, so I’; laughter every day.4. That in music I like Pink, Doug & the Slugs, ColdPlay, Shania, and much more. That I like rock, country, blues, pop, ***… and almost anything as long as I can hear the lyrics. (So I’ll pass on screech-rock and gangsta-rap.) My car radio pre-sets get a work out, but I think 97.7 gets the most play (with 105.1, 103.1, 106.5 haha, & 95.9 too) to give you an idea.…O.K. Those are the things meetville suggests, but I feel they only paint a tiny part of who I am. They, and so much more, are the fun things to discover in time.My TurnAt the very top, I told you why I’m here. Those 2 sentences are the best, most honest way I’ve found to express it. I do want to put the effort into ultimately falling in love with my best friend.I’m NOT a stud, player, have a list of pick-up lines, or am looking for a cheap-fling/hookup. I’m just an overall quality guy, with faults & flaws just like you, wanting to be open, honest & present in a relationship, and I’m hoping to start by having a quality conversation with a quality woman with the possibility that it may lead fun, happiness, romance, and the connection of two souls that are meant to be together.Now, how do I hope to do that?Hopefully, a day from now… one of us is surprised to find a new message in our meetville “Inbox.” It’s refreshingly personal and thoughtful, and a quick check of the Profile behind it reveals a depth and sincerity that’s not at all the norm here. This is the catalyst to the beginning of a fun message-chat with real thoughts and sentences, giggles and smiles, and wanting to know more. (Note: I have no “instant” or remote “texting” option connected here, just basic PC messaging.) Hopefully, a week from now… we decide to get together for a first coffee, and time melts away as we find ourselves sharing stories. We can’t wait for the next burst of laughter, or the next unique discovery we make about the person across the table. Our meaningful core similarities harmoniously overlap, while the differences between us promise potential future discovery, growth, and adventure between us. We mutually feel a relaxed “click,” the beginnings of chemistry, and a spirit of fun & anticipation envelops us both.Hopefully, a month from now… we’re exclusively dating, and exploring Calgary and each other. We’re both sharing our favourite activities and regular haunts, and trying new adventures for both of us, together. Romantic dinners, movies, festivals, afternoon drives, and attractions are interspersed with quality quiet time talking, understanding, laughing, and feeling with each other. We’re also starting to discover the natural comfort of snuggling in each other’s arms, the freedom of fun and play, the joy in passionate kisses where the world stops, and the desires we have for intimacy where our hearts pound as one.Hopefully, a year from now… it’s getting ever harder to remember a time when we weren’t so naturally a part of each other’s lives. We plan our weeks first-and-foremost around time we’ll be spending together, and our friends know that if they invite either of us out it’s already implied the invitation is for both of us. We’ve been continually achieving milestones of trust, intimacy, fearless communication, joy, happiness, passion, and understanding. We’re building memories, foundation, and love that make up the happiness and life experiences we’ve always wanted in our lives.Hopefully, a time will come… when we are together, as one. We have forged a meaningful bond between us, and have either created a family together, or you have extended the trust in me to join yours without reservation, …or both. Being together we’’s challenges, as we face them all together as a team. We continue to grow with shared adventures & travel, yet also find peace in the serenity of our “home” that we’ve created together. meetville, dating, being single… are all memories looong in the past, replaced with memories of laughter, walking hand-in-hand, and joy mixed with permanent feelings of complete acceptance and belonging in equal measure. We are best friends, have grown together, fallen in love, and stayed that way.…So, there you are. That’s what I’m hoping for, and why I’m here.It all starts with a coffee (or whatever), and just taking the first step to see if the rest is possible.…You in? See, "Hopefully, a week from now...", above.What our actual "First Date" is after that will take your uniqueness into consideration, and we can plan that together....But here are suggestions for dates *** the last one not so much.......P.S. Since I get asked this a fair bit: Yes, I did write every word in my "About Me" profile, none of it was copied from any other source...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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