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Ricki, 45
United States, Kentucky, Mount Washington

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...okay, so i gather my previous profile was too oblique. figured i'd give it another shot. i just can't bring myself to write a traditional one, though-- i mostly find them insipid. ***'ll start with a story:so, i broke my neck one time. bit of a bummer, that. i considered myself kind of a busy guy, and hadn't budgeted any of my time for quadriplegia. didn't really like the idea much, to be honest. the doctors said that when the the spinal swelling went down, i would begin to regain some or all of my functions- but they couldn't say just what that would end up looking like. for a time there, mercifully brief, all i really wanted from life was to be able to walk. ...and then something worse happened. i bought an audi. fast forward five or six months-- a friend had warned me not to buy it, told me that old audis were junk. but did i listen? i did not listen. and this car broke down every three weeks, like clockwork, for the nine months i owned it. i could have been leasing a rolls royce ***, for the money in repairs i dumped into this piece. clutch pedal just randomly hits the floor, completely unmoored. the car gradually rolls to a stop. it's raining. and omigod, am i ever feeling sorry for myself. i mean, have i not suffered enough? seriously? i get out of the car, in the rain, and try to push the car off to the side of the road. i can't push it, as i'm still weak as a kitten, the result of residual paralysis and muscle atrophy. (at one point it was all i could do to bench press a broom stick, two and one half times). so i'm leaning into the car with my hips to awkwardly push it that way. i'm getting rained on, and i'm bitter. this is ***, i don't have a cell phone. on top of all of my other frustrations, i have to walk downtown. i am so full of self pity i can barely stand it.and then it occurs to me that, a few short months before, all i wanted was to be able to walk; and now i am upset because i have to. and so i laughed and i wept and thanked god, and i walked in the rain, and if i have had a better day than this one, i don't recall it. i bring this up for two reasons. the first is that, no matter how many times i try to wrest satisfaction from life, i always come back to the same conclusion. the only happiness or peace or serenity or contentment that will be mine, on any but the most fleeting basis, will come to me not because i get what i want, but because i am willing to accept life as it presents itself. in any given moment, i have to walk, or i get to walk. i try to keep that in mind on sites like this- i just want to try and stay present, enjoy whatever moment i happen to be in, and not get weighed down with expectations, hopes, etc....and the second reason: i mean, what good is a story like that, if you can't use it to pick up chicks on the internet?a few random details. i:--prefer travel to tourism***have worked at various times as a blackjack dealer, a short-order cook, an attorney, a dishwasher, a writer, and a paperboy--have a (no-doubt unhealthy) contempt for reality television in all its forms--am well-acquainted with the subject explored in those fifty shades of bad prose books--have a heretofore mostly***seldom wear shoes--think service to others is the only antidote for my selfish nature. o and but though i resist, and resist, and resist--have high hopes, despite the contrary conclusion reached in reason number one, supra --am liberal; spiritual rather than religious; not jealous; and skeptical--am embarrassed by my pictures, but slightly less embarrassed by them than i am of basically every other picture ever taken of memy body works just fine now, by the way, and thanks for asking. i still like to walk.so who are you? tell me things. maybe we can get together over coffee and work together on honing the language in these nifty profile questionnaire responses. mine needs work.

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    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Look, if you're focusing your camera more on your tits than on your face, um.....well.....we really aren't going to have much to talk about. Sure, you may have a great rack...but it takes more than that to hold a conversation, and besides....you'll never catch me looking below your chin during a face to face meeting.(I'm not saying I wont be checking you out....Im just saying you wont CATCH me, unless I WANT to be caught!!)I'm not really into sports. I do like fishing, boxing, UFC and MMA....but I really dont give a flyin fuq about football or other "team" sports.Ive been told that "most of the men on this site are absolute freaks" and I laugh because I honestly KNOW how sick most of us really are. I am usually embarrassed to be a man because we ain't right, as a species in general. I do like to think that I'm a different breed, but dont we all like to think that we are better than most? I may not necessarily be better, but I sincerely think that I am a little "left of center". I actually like romance....I hope that doesn't sound gay, but I DO like holding hands and walking down the beach at night. Or kissing for hours without always giving into the desires that inevitably follow. I like watching a woman's mouth move when she speaks, and to feel her breathe when I'm holding her in her sleep. I know some of this sounds sappy...but these are the things that make me who I am, whoever that may be. Then there's ANOTHER SIDE OF ME who will slam you against a wall and pull your hair while biting your neck until you think Ive lost my friggen mind...you might get a little scared that I will take it too far....you will never really know what YOUR definition of TOO FAR is until you've been pushed right up against it. But, not to worry....I know when youre reaching your limits. And for the record.....dont be fooled into thinking that MANY OF YOU WOMEN aren't absolute FREAKS too. I have been asked questions on this site that have literally made me blush, and thats not an easy task!!!!HONESTY ALERT: If I dont show any interest in having a conversation with you, why would you think I would be willing to "Just meet up for sex"??? Does anyone ever take you up on that??? Classy stuff, there! *** OLD photos of yourself proves that you are a liar and are not to be trusted....no thanks. If you're willing to lie, you'd be willing to cheat....been there, done that. Im willing to trust again, dont make me regret it.Very important fact about me...I AM ALCOHOL, DRUG, AND DISEASE FREE and have every intention of remaining that way. Pot smoking doesnt really bother me(although I have no desire to participate), but anything beyond that...I just dont have time to waste on those types of problems. And DISEASE FREE means just that...not just FREE OF DISEASE THIS WEEK!!! For a FIRST date, I suppose it would be fairly typical....the first date is always a little awkward. I'd prefer some suggestions from the lady so that we can both enjoy it and relax...but if its left completely up to me, it will usually be something public, for the comfort of safety, and fairly quiet so that a decent conversation will be easy to carry. I'm fine with trying new foods that I wouldn't normally eat on a typical night out with the guys if there's a chance that it might show a woman that I'm willing to sacrifice my normal comfort zone to please her and make her comfortable, and the same goes for trying new experiences.I'm not so set in my ways that I wouldn't try just about anything at least once, maybe twice if I felt like I could do it better the second time around!I think most people can tell within the first hour if there is going to be a second date or if you're going to be making up excuses to get the hell out of there as fast as possible by any means necessaryry!!!I love animals....I really do, but I have no intention of dating one!! Why waste space on your profile with pictures of your pets? Its not so bad if you're IN the picture with your pet, but be smart enough to choose a picture where your dog/cat/llama isn't more attractive than YOU!!! I also have no interest in dating your children and firmly believe that it could be potentially dangerous to post pictures of your kids on a site like this. Be smart, ladies....there are alot of sick people in this world!!!

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  • Mikel from Mount Washington | Man | 45 years old | Aries
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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    hobbies: flying and travel. goals: be the best that I can be. Strive to accomplish more. I am quick witted, sarcastic, make real life situations funny, very selfless, care about others, put everything into what I do. I am looking for that kind of woman that has her own life going on but would lIke to share it with someone. be for warned. I am a smart ass at times. LoL I don't take things that are minor and make them into big dramatic productions. I like the movies and playwrites, but lets keep those on the movie screen not introducing them into everyones life. LOL OK so back to being somewhat serious. Music: all depends on the mood, emotion and place. I listen to it all. Back to being wordy I am not one to over inflate myself. I have accomplished what I have accomplished and have been able to provide, protect and give everything to my family. My boy's are the priority in my life. My boys are very important to me. If you are one to think you need more attention then them right off the bat. Please do not respond. My days allotted for them are theirs and mine. Which is like every divorce of long distance, holidays and teacher planning days. Sorry. All other days. No problem we can work it out. I am very off the wall at times with my responses and depends on what is going on at the time. I have a weird, some might say, sense of humor, Doesn't mean there is anything to read into. But if u are one to read my future bring it girlfriend. Maybe we can win the lottery and travel. All else open door. I will not introduce you to my boys unless we really click. I am not one to throw that around and give them the wrong impression. I like to play hard when I can. Travel at a drop of the hat on a moments notice, weather to some other state or any other country. Not afraid to try anything. My #1 guy is the big guy everyone praises no matter how they go about it. Doesn't matter to me, as long as he is #1. I do try to make it to church every sunday but you know sometimes work has to be done even on a day of rest. I defiantly am not the perfect christian either. There is only one person that can fit that roll. But sometimes I do hang out with Jesus's crowd with out knowing it. You know the ones, the liars, the thieves and the whores. We are not all perfect. Well maybe some of us are pretty close to being that being made out of gods image and all you know LOL, ok sorry for the humor we will continue now. Then my kids, then you if it works out. If and when things work out between the two of us you will become my rock, like the lord said. So if you have a problem with numbers For the time being, you are not the one for me either. Then again if you have enough money to spoil me that could change things. LOL!!! Thanks again for looking. Sorry for rambling. Just setting the record straight. Oh yea if the site shows I am online it is because we live in a world of technology I do haline all the time. So I am not here alwayThanks Again talk, dinner someone is cooking, first settled by talk. eating good food, whoever thinks they are the better cook. drinks depending on the food and environment. Future depends on the outcome of above. don't forget your humor. It is very important to laugh. Too many people just can't let the little out of your control things go. So you just gotta laugh at the situation.****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

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