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Jaycob, 45

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About Me

So I’d say, embrace vulnerability. Don’t be afraid of being vulnerable. Because if you numb it, you’d feel numb. Maybe you thought you’d feel okay, it would protect you from getting hurt again by not letting people in, but you’d also prevent yourself from all the wonderful feelings you can feel. Being okay is okay, but what a waste. I’d say, let people in, be madly in love, love wholeheartedly even if there is no guarantee, trust others, let them in. Be vulnerable, know your worth, and believe that you are enough. And only when you embrace vulnerability, you accept yourself truly, you admit that you are imperfect, and that’s just what you need to be able to feel it, to really feel it, to just believe in what you believe in, embrace the uncertainty and take a leap of faith.I am 46 by the way can't change it in my profile........

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Merle

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    How would I describe me? Well, I’m awesome of course! LOLReally, I am my own person. I believe in love, and romance. I am passionate and compassionate. I am very open minded, and accepting, and yet I have a set of standards and values for myself that I believe make me a better person.I try to live my life to the fullest, and I try to have fun no matter what I do. I have a quick wit and a sarcastic, yet not mean sense of humor, and I can see the bright side of anything.I am not necessarily an optimist, nor am I a pessimist. I am more of a realist. My glass is neither half full nor half empty… I just have twice as much glass as I need, just in case.I eat, sleep and breathe music. In fact, I own my own record store. I love all types of music, though Classic Rock from the late 60’s to early 70’s is the foundation. I believe music transcends age, race, gender, faith or any other way that humans use to separate and segregate themselves. It is a language we all speak, if we listen with our hearts *** our ears.When I’m not working at my shop, I’m fishing, at the beach, or spending time with my family or friends. (Which are the only things in my life that are truly worth anything) I love trying new things, and am always trying to learn more. I always want to expand my horizons.Now on to what I am looking for.Not much really. I’m way past the game playing days, and I don’t feel the need to impress anyone. Life is good and I would like a special friend to share that with. I am an awesome cook, but eat out more often than not, because I don’t enjoy cooking for myself. I’d rather share a meal with someone who appreciates it. I enjoy great conversation, and would love to have someone who could keep me on my toes and challenge me intellectually, as it were. Finally, I am looking to relax and cut loose a little bit. I work a lot, and I have very many responsibilities. Every once in a while, I need to kick my shoes off and run into the breaking waves of the surf. I need to play in the rain, or just chill with the right person next to me. I need to not only stop and smell the roses, but to share those roses with someone I care about and who cares about me.Remember, it’s not the breaths you take, but the moments that take your breath away!HONESTY by Billy JoelIf you search for tenderness it isn't hard to find. You can have the love you need to live. But if you look for truthfulness You might just as well be blind. It always seems to be so hard to give. Honesty is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue. Honesty is hardly ever heard. And mostly what I need from you. I can always find someone to say they sympathize. If I wear my heart out on my sleeve. But I don't want some pretty face to tell me pretty lies. All I want is someone to believe. Honesty is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue. Honesty is hardly ever heard. And mostly what I need from you. I can find a lover. I can find a friend. I can have security until the bitter end. Anyone can comfort me with promises again. I know, I know. When I'm deep inside of me don't be too concerned. I won't as for nothin' while I'm gone. But when I want sincerity tell me where else can I turn. Because you're the one I depend upon. Honesty is such a lonely word. Everyone is so untrue. Honesty is hardly ever heard. And mostly what I need from you. Ahh, first dates, gotta love 'em. You know in that whole I absolutely hate them kind of way. It's like a job interview on steroids. So how about this. Coffee or drinks near the beach, and take it from there. But, then again, I'm easy to amuse, and pretty much enjoy myself wherever I am, so if you have another idea, I'm open to suggestions!

  • Allister

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    I'm very easy going..not hard to please..I love spending time with family..I'm very active with my kids and their sports. I do attend church when schedule allows it..I'm looking for honesty, faithfullness and understanding..can't tell you everything..have to leave something for imagination.. Meet somewhere we can sit down and talk to get to know one another.

  • Boaz

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

    It\'s hard to talk about myself, I\'m a shy person by nature, but I\'m trying to work past that (life is too short right?). So I’d like to meet a person who’ll be able to get to know me better before judging.

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