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Steven, 41
United States, Kentucky, Lancaster

Offline, last seen Fri, 13 Mar 2026 10:21:02

About Me

’m still a newbie to the area. And yes, I do have the accent and I LOVE the Patriots! I’ve decided that I’m ready to get out and see what the local dating scene holds, and hoping it isn’t quite the disaster that I’ve heard from my friends. I work for the Government in law enforcement, so in addition to working a crazy schedule at times, the person that I’m looking to date has to be, at the very least understanding, if not supportive to my career choice and law enforcement in general. I’ve been in this line of work for 12 years, and worked very hard to get where I am. I’d like to think that despite being a cop for a long time, I haven’t let my experiences taint my outlook on people (not too much anyway!).I’m told I’m an attractive guy and people usually think that I am much younger than I my actual age. I try to stay in good shape, mostly because it’s important in this line of work.- It seems like image is everything here. I do feel that physical attraction is very important in a relationship, and that it certainly takes effort on both parts. I feel that it is important to continue to put the effort in throughout a relationship and to struggle against the whole “getting comfortable” syndrome, but I feel that long term success depends on being able to communicate and be comfortable with the other person.People I meet in a social environment often are surprised by how easy going I am, most people expect cops to be arrogant and self-absorbed. I respect another person’s right to believe what they want, as long as it isn’t being preached to me. I laugh easy, and can be somewhat loud at times. I enjoy sarcasm, if it isn’t mean spirited, and won’t deny that I enjoy a good argument every now and then. I am also a bit OCD at times, I can’t stand slobs. I don’t scrub stuff with a toothbrush, but everything is neat and has a place. 8 years in the military will do that for you.I have many interests and enjoy all kinds of activities. I have a 9 year old Boxer that is my best buddy, and walk/hike with him usually a couple of times a day. I also own a Harley and love riding. My ideal partner would definitely be into riding, or even better, have her own bike. I like boating and exploring and just seeing what’s out there. I prefer bars to clubs, and love discovering dives with unique atmospheres. I don’t go “clubbing” anymore, I feel like I’ve outgrown the pretentiousness of it. I don’t, and almost never dance, so what’s the point of going someplace where you can’t hear people talk? I enjoy the whole dinner and a movie night with drinks and conversation after. I also don’t mind nights in, cooking (or trying to), hanging out talking, watching TV or reading. It would be great to find somebody that is easy to be around that I don’t have to find distractions from.Although I’m not here looking for “hookups”, I am a sexual person and feel that it is also an important part of a relationship. Some people find it funny to say that, but I’m sure every guy has been in a long term relationship with a woman who acts like a freak until she feels secure in her position, then the sex goes away or, even worse, is used as leverage to control them. If that sounds like you, please move on! I don’t settle for unhappiness no matter how long I’ve been with somebody. I’d love to find a woman with a Jodi Arias appetite, without the whole stabbing/shooting thing, because that’s a deal breaker! Seriously though, I would love to find somebody that is passionate and lusty and who likes to experiment and try new things.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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