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Calder, 42

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About Me

About me..........Back on here again after nearly a year away!I'm a 42 year old (just) father of three gorgeous daughters (19, 15 & 7)I'm not looking for quick flings or don't intend to waste anyones time or mess them around. I want to meet that special girl to spend forever with. Someone that you miss even though you saw them half an hour ago. Not someone perfect, just perfect for me. Really appreciate the simple things in life & family time. Like to think I can make people laugh and love having fun and being around happy people. Life's too short....so if you are quite short, petite (ish) have a lovely smile & like what you see and read on here then why not?? It's that easy....isn't it?Likes: Mojitos, Marmite, Peanuts,people watching, Country Walks, Nights Out and In, Keeping fit (or trying) Circuit Training, cuddles.Dislikes: Arrogance, Rudeness, Middle lane drivers, chavs, women that like your profile but don't get in touch.I know pretty much what I'm looking for so I apologise if I don't reply to every message (if I get any!). I just believe that at the age I'm at I'm not prepared to just settle for someone as it's better than being single. I don't want to waste years with the wrong person & by now I know what I like and don't! Make sense?Age range: ***"She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” Quiet pub? Somewhere that you can chat and arrange date number two.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Guitar1Le

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 19-41

    I'm a single father just looking for a good hearted woman , one to have fun with and grow together, I'm very active person , like the adrenaline rush kinda stuff , but very down to earth , have 2 daughters , work full time, but any how if you might be interested in talking chatting hanging out give it a shot.

  • Ralph

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Thanks for looking this far! Back on the single scene and looking for the woman to sweep me off my feet and make me smile. A few lads at work have pestered me into joining up on here so here I am! About me - I enjoy eating out and trying new foods and cultures, I love to keep fit be it running round the football pitch, or going to the gym. I enjoy a night out as much as the next person but also love to curl up on the sofa with a bottle of wine good film and a few candles (try to be romantic sometimes). Generally I'm a happy go lucky bloke, who doesn't take life too seriously but also on the other hand life has its serious time! I'm loyal, honest, trustworthy and committed to the right person when I find her! I spend time as much time with my kids as I can and try to make them laugh as much as possible! Coffee or a meal...

  • River

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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Here goes the extremely difficult part……..(does anyone bar me read these) I am brutally honest and direct, which sometimes doesn’t go down too well, stubborn, tactile, affectionate, caring and romantic. I also love a great bum! Told you I was honest. I am rugged looking and although the profile says ‘Brown Hair’, it is probably nearing 50% flecks of grey. It will not be getting dyed. I have been told I am a “Man’s Man” whatever that means. I am not into spending hours in the bathroom prior to going out, I would prefer to sit and wait for you while supping a beer or enjoying a glass of red wine. I am not a complete caveman though, and I will ensure I make myself more than presentable, but the Clarins I received on my last birthday remains unopened, so if you’re after the Mr Boyband look or Mr Vain, forget it. It is your prerogative to turn up looking jaw droppingly gorgeous. I have old style values and believe in integrity, loyalty, respect and working hard for what you want in life. I particularly hate liars, thieves and people who think the world owes them something. I like punctuality but have learnt that it is a concept most women are unaware of, it used to irk me, now I just roll with it. I don’t do jealously, something else I have grown out of, that said I will not turn a blind eye and be taken advantage of, see above “Respect and Loyalty”.I have a broad taste in music anything from Stone Roses, Oasis, Keane, Travis and Embrace to Lady Gaga, and Rhianna, I am quite fond of Elvis and even own a Johnny Cash CD! I can be quiet on occasion, not an introvert by any stretch of the imagination, just not a ‘Mouth’. I don’t get on with people who waffle *** for hours. I am a pretty good judge of character and I can genuinely ‘suss’ someone out within minutes of meeting them, occasionally I get it wrong, but not that often.I love animal’s, although I am more of a dog man than a cat lover, and big dogs too, not the little yappy things that may as well be a cat. I despise animal cruelty. I am well travelled, I have lived abroad for a total of 7 years, and while some of that time has been spent in places I would rather forget, I am all the more rounded for the experience.What am I looking for? Someone who is bubbly and outgoing, to compensate my sometimes quiet sideAn animal lover, particularly dogsA nice bum!

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