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Calder, 42
United States, Kentucky, Hartford

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About Me

About me..........Back on here again after nearly a year away!I'm a 42 year old (just) father of three gorgeous daughters (19, 15 & 7)I'm not looking for quick flings or don't intend to waste anyones time or mess them around. I want to meet that special girl to spend forever with. Someone that you miss even though you saw them half an hour ago. Not someone perfect, just perfect for me. Really appreciate the simple things in life & family time. Like to think I can make people laugh and love having fun and being around happy people. Life's too short....so if you are quite short, petite (ish) have a lovely smile & like what you see and read on here then why not?? It's that easy....isn't it?Likes: Mojitos, Marmite, Peanuts,people watching, Country Walks, Nights Out and In, Keeping fit (or trying) Circuit Training, cuddles.Dislikes: Arrogance, Rudeness, Middle lane drivers, chavs, women that like your profile but don't get in touch.I know pretty much what I'm looking for so I apologise if I don't reply to every message (if I get any!). I just believe that at the age I'm at I'm not prepared to just settle for someone as it's better than being single. I don't want to waste years with the wrong person & by now I know what I like and don't! Make sense?Age range: ***"She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.” Quiet pub? Somewhere that you can chat and arrange date number two.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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