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Alystair, 45

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About Me

Open and honest guy, single (divorced) and ready to move on to the next chapter of my life. Looking to find someone who becomes a friend, spend time with them on a regular basis and allow the relationship to develop over time.I love seeing others happy, making others laugh or smile. I generally make others laugh, and can also laugh at myself. A good belly laugh is one of the best health effects you can get for free! Someone who needs a hug, even from his mates at times.I'll listen, offer an opinion if required, I am good at problem solving (whatever the problem!)I have a wide taste in music which spans many decades, but maybe majors on the "80's" I am a competent cook and the majority of what I eat I have cooked myself, single guy who avoids pre-cooked meals.I believe in honesty I will tell it how I see it, would appreciate open and honest in return.I am a keen golfer, and have reached several national finals in the last couple of years, won a county title 3 years running, and captained my club, but it is not the be all and end all have done a lot already.I love skiing and have skied most years for the last 25 years. A guy who seeks and offers affection, a hug, a squeeze of the hand, a kiss are the things that make my heart race, guys get those butterflies in their stomachs too!My Children are 18 & 16 and live with their mother day-to-day. A meal or a meet in a pub or a coffee shop. Somewhere we are both comfortable and are able to talk and hear each other. See if there is a mutual attraction and connection and agree when we would meet again and what we would do. If you are into golf and would fancy playing a round that would work also. Unless you have another suggestion.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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