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Shelby, 45

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About Me

Ok, so I find myself back on an online dating site, filling out all of these wonderful questions. I've tried online dating in the past, and feel it can work. It's a lot of work, but what the hell...right? I've read a bunch of profiles and most of them seem to share the same sentiment... women want men who don't cheat, and don't lie. Just a hint girls, most of us want the exact same thing!! My son will be 21 this year and after raising him on my own for all those years, I am finally getting used to the whole "empty nest" thing. It kind of snuck up on me and I wasn't ready at first... I think I'm finally used to it. I'd love to find someone to share the next chapter with.I am drama free and hope that you are also. We all have some type of "crap" that we can't help but bring with us... the difference is whether or not it's contained!! Hopefully I'm not coming across too jaded here...lol. I told you this online dating thing is hard work! If you're real, and looking for a relationship... and not just window shopping, say Hi and let's talk... Oh, and YES, I have a great job, a vehicle and a house (and NO, my mom doesn't live in the basement! lol)... Just in case NOT having those is a deal breaker... With this venue I think keeping it simple is important. I don't think either of us want to be stuck out at dinner with someone when we're really not feeling it... Let's get a coffee or q drink and see if there's a spark. Date two is endless with possibilities, right?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Squarepeg - Round WorldWhat's to know ... I'm a good cook, kinda funny, bit of a geek, & love to learn. I love my family [I have two great sons, 19 & ***both in college - LSU & ULL - Go Tigers!][yea nephews!].[]. I enjoy good coffee, tasty red wine, a good cold beer on occasion. Politics is a bit of a passion ... I guess I could be described as an 'independent libertarian' [Don't Tread On Me type]. I still eat my m&m's by color. I don't really follow any professional sports, so you won't catch me sacked out in front of football, baseball, ... games all day on the weekends. If I am buried in a project for work, I do roll some odd hours when necessary, but can pretty much flex my hours on my schedule.What else? I enjoy a good movie, not a fan or horror/slasher flicks though, I prefer a good romantic comedy, regular comedy, action, or drama. Musically I am all over the map ... And, I love road trips just about anywhere... I love to see this beautiful country [; ***along the coast almost the entire way - absolutely incredible!].[] to work on a large website project for a past client.[I love the CA central & north coast & my work allows me to work from anywhere I have an internet connection].[], and am found a great cottage on a ranch on the north-[;-) ].What else??? I do web development and training on the Joomla platform, consult on small business system integration, starting to do a little bit of voice-over work, and am becoming a bit of an video editor and sound man on the side.Currently studying to become SalesForce consultant certified. And, I have an 'in-house' web project that I have been developing with a business partner that is currently in pre-launch & will hopefully make a huge impact in it's niche so I can use that income to seed a non-profit concept I have been tinkering with. .... And, although I take my work very seriously, I am still very much a kid at heart.What am I looking for? Well, I am really open to anything. But, in that search I also hope to make some new friends, contacts, or whatever ... Besides, I need to find a great woman who likes my slightly unconventional life ---; I am open to many types of first dates. Mostly interested in activities where we could get to know each other, talk, and goof off a for a while. ... I am a bit of a coffee lover, so that's always a great place to start.

  • Reese

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I\'m pretty simple. I\'m easy going and I enjoy having fun. Don\'t really enjoy the bar scene. Looking for someone that is interested in cars maybe could teach me a thing or two about them.

  • Rama

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    attraction is important I agree and so is Chemistry. Not sure how all this works , "IN PERSON" I seem to have a Zest for life . here I am just words on a screen .If we have some common interests and Values I hope to hear from you , I am looking for friends , and Quality over Quantity , if we click I am all about a relationship.What I'm Looking For...I am looking for ?????? That is the question ,,, Chemistry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! , We can always use more people in our lives, People to get to know , Spend quality time with , Enjoy life and build great memories , I like diversity , from Riding motorcycles to Boating , Picnics in the park to Black Tie GALA's .... People have discribed me as funny , nice , sweet and easy on the eyes, I love dancing, singing , riding motorcycles , and romantic moments.I am a hopless romantic by nature I like to spoil the person I'm with , call a few times a day just to say hi , I'm thinking of you...

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