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Joby, 42
United States, Kentucky, Flemingsburg

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 01:57:10

About Me

I am now established and have very happily acclimated to the real suburban/city life of the lower 48.ME:My friends and family would describe me as genuine, honest, loyal, easy going, down to earth, open-minded, good natured, tolerant, patient, nonjudgmental, fun-loving, goofy, compassionate, sometimes serious, sweet, and kind hearted. I care deeply about family, friends, animals, humanity in general, social justice/issues, equality, and the environment.I am respectful, affectionate, considerate, complimentary, supportive, reliable, consistent (to a certain degree; not always predictable), and flexible (I know how to compromise). I believe in chivalry. I am not perfect and I don’t pretend to be! I admit to my mistakes and learn from them. I probably can be complicated and picky at times too. I know how to recognize boundaries, I respect them, and I expect the same. I believe that I have good communication and listening skills but they can always use improvement.Lastly, I am also told that I am fun to be around and that I have the ability to make people feel comfortable around me. I am a positive guy who likes to smile and laugh a lot. I laugh at myself often and don't take myself too seriously.My life is stable, I really got my act together, and I’m in a good place in life.WHAT I ENJOY: I love being in the outdoors and exploring. I am really into music and I enjoy going to concerts and music festivals either locally or nationally. I am into rock-n-roll, the blues, rootsy Americana, zydeco, string- I would not expect my partner to share every interest of mine. Just share enough interests to closely connect with one another. Music would be a major bonus though!YOU:• Kind, honest, easy going, nonjudgmental, open-minded, intelligent, creative, down to earth, independent, responsible, generous, healthy, stable, and family oriented• Emotionally available and stable• Not uptight and can mingle with all kinds of people in a variety of social settings/venues• Funny• Comfortable and content with just hanging out sometimes and not always having to be on the go• Enjoy dining out, going for drinks/cocktails, seeing a movie, going to see live music, shopping, walking around the city, checking out art galleries and stores, people watching, going for a hike, going for a drive, and outdoor activitiesI would very much like to meet a woman that can show me new things, turn me on to new adventures, take me to new places, and mix it up a bit in general and get me out of my comfort zone. Someone who likes getting dressed up for a romantic night out or in. I, in general, enjoy doing activities and spending time with my partner no matter what it is (e.g. laundry, cleaning, preparing food, shopping, etc.).I am affectionate and physical and I must have a partner who is too. I'm living a good life and enjoying this ride on the road of life. If you like what you read here and are interested in finding out more I encourage you to ask.I know I’m ready to meet, are you?Cheers! Generally on an initial encounter I would prefer something very low key. Nothing fancy. It just needs to be in a quite surrounding so we can hear one another & and make the most of the visit to see if there is a mutual likeness and something worth pursuing. First encounters can be awkward so I’m generally not interested in dining out. I’m just interested in enjoying each others company and learning a little about one another by sharing some stories. I’m just going to be myself and expect the other person to do the same. Whatever happens, happens. It's all good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic German Irish Mexican Middle Eastern Adventure Comedy Crime Basketball
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