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Benjy, 43

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About Me

Hello, I'd like to give you a hug. Had a good one of those lately? I'm 43, single, Never Married, and have no kids. I can be a goofball or I can be serious. I like country and jazz music and listening to news about current events. I like to stay informed and I want to make the world a better place one good deed at a time. I don't party or go out clubbin' or blow money traveling around the world. I believe in planning for the future. I am a dependable, caring, and affectionate guy and seek the same attributes in a slim attractive traditional lady. If you are politically conservative also then we'll get along splendidly. If interested, let me know. If not, God bless and happy fishing!p.s. - If you insist on living with your dog or cat, or post photos of you holding a beer in a club, it would never work out between us. Just being honest... not the type person I'm looking for. Something simple, low stress, where we can just be ourselves and get to know each other at a place we can hear each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    "A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men." Roald DahlI played baseball for a good portion my life, so i am pretty good at sports.I like to read and I really enjoy good comedies and lots of movies.I do a decent [[Irish]], Australian, and British accent. I am currently trying to learn [[French]] and I try to collect sunglasses because I either break them or lose them...lolInterests: I go to the renaissance faire, quotes interest me, gaming, concerts...as many as i can go to, poker, photography, and people observing/watching. Im very into music/movies/certain tv shows like: U2, NIN, Pink Floyd, Depeche Mode, ELO, Dido, The Stone Roses, Bjork, Dead Can Dance, Siouxsie &; a half Men, The Big Bang Theory, The Office, Tosh. I work in the Mortgage loans (changed from insurance).I decided to go back to school and am currently pursuing 2 AA degrees in criminal justice/forensic science/computer science-information systems and hopefully plan to turn those into bachelor's degrees. One of my phrases, is that "I surround myself with people of good character." So my friends that I have, I end up keeping for a long time.I take each day as it comes...most days I feel lucky to have a good life. My inner child likes to come out and play quite often. Sometimes I live in a Paracosm. “I have the choice of being constantly active and happy or introspectively passive and sad. Or I can go mad by ricocheting in between.”.. ultimately this is something I want, however for now I would like to meet some new and interesting people. I am not in a hurry to find anything serious. It should happen naturally. As the song goes, "you can't hurry love".I'm not perfect and I dont expect you to be either. I'm not out to try to change you and I certainly wouldnt expect the same. I try to learn something new everyday and if there is one thing that I miss with a woman...it's holding hands. It sounds corny...but its true. I'm a pretty open person if you ask me something and I'm also very non-judgemental. I am not into people who are preachy or like to force their opinions down you're throat. I like to allow things to sink in and then make my own assessments. I'm looking for a girl who likes sports or can at least endure them, who likes to go to concerts, can adapt if things dont quite work out as planned and be ok with it, has an adventureous side, and I think that glasses on a woman is really sexy. “The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars," Jack Kerouac ...if we meet up, there is no pressure...if we get along great...if not...no worries.....

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