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Yusuf, 45
United States, Kentucky, Columbia

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UPDATE: I WoRKeD regular hours as a computer geek, but apprently p*$$ed off the wrong VP, who seems to be doing the same to others; I would say he's on borrowed time. I'm very happy about being let go, I have funds saved to live on and can use a break - only my plans are not to vacation, although I could use it. Life is an adventure, so I live it as such. I don't have a ton of money, but have the attitude and perspective necessary. I tend to take it easy in the evenings. I don't run around constantly, but like to get out. I'm pretty much an open book, and will tell you anything you like to know. Isn't that half the fun? Im fun in more personal ways - just not weird. My problem with this online dating is that everything seems so forced. Everyone is too busy on their phone to make eye contact anymore. Sad that life is lived so electronically. Recent pics? the one in my office wearing a blue shirt is only a few weeks old. I will send pics on request to prove where I'm at and what I really look like if you want. Also, by the time we hit 40, we have lived a lot, right? We all have experiences; some good, some not so good. We all have times that we wish we had done things differently. Please, don't feel ashamed or embarrassed to admit these things, as I am the last person that wants to judge you, or has a right to. I have made my mistakes. I'll find out who you really are, and you me, soon enough. Fair? The first date is a big question mark! I don't really care where, when, or what, just that we can laugh and talk, so a movie or concert are obviously not my first choices. A long walk, a snack or lunch outside, a picnic maybe, golf, put-put, shopping, just anywhere that we can talk and see if we are a good fit for each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Country Disco Hip-Hop Canadian English Portuguese Fantasy Mystery Sport
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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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