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Darby, 45
United States, Kansas, Wellington

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Hi. I am testing the water as I am curious to see who I may meet, someone to spend fun quality time,romance,maybe more?.I am a genuine guy with a positive outlook ,sociable, uncomplicated,passionate, loyal and down to earth. I enjoy good conversation and banter,can do serious or with a cheeky edge,like interesting company,some intelligence am easy going and thrive on humour.I am independent but open to new ideas and dont have tunnel vision! I find this attractive in any potential partner I may meet.I like most types of music 70s,80s,rock,indie,dance,chillout,etc and will have a dance and let loose ! Enjoy a gig and a night on the town though my clubbing days are behind me lol.Just as happy in a country pub with a nice beer.I keep fit and regularly go cycling,walking,climbing,football,swimming etc enjoy the buzz and keeps me young.I dislike: ***,yobs,traffic,bills!I am realistic we dont all share the same interests,can have busy lives (esp if you have kids) and like a bit of me time,into mutual respect not mind games or control!I am looking for that real connection and chemistry, to challenge,compliment and share adventures,good times,values, to discover that fun attractive spark! My main goals are to remain happy, enjoy every day,share life,see the world.If you see some common ground ,want genuine with a cheeky smile and nice eyes then I could be the man for you...? x Anything relaxed and fun.......coffee,drink,chat,walk, funfair! Surprises are nice but if you want to jump off a cliff then il make my excuses....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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