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Hilary, 44
United States, Kansas, Wellington

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Hi , thanks for stopping by :) I'm an honest, hard working, respectful, lovable, and trustworthy guy, I'm no oil painting, but I do have a kind heart and hopefully that balances out things. I am full of humour, a very good listener, but also do enjoy communicating. My hobbies are Photography (Nature and wildlife), walking and I am a regular visitor to the cinema. My film choices are very vague but I guess they are quite geeky, scifi, horror and thrillers are my favourite’s. My favourite films, are Star Wars, Highlander, Blade Runner and the Ring. I like many different types of music like Depeche Mode, ACDC, The Who, Nirvana, Foo Fighters, folk music, classical, various 60,70 & 80's bands. Also I love listening to Brass band music.. but don't worry I wont drag you along to a show LOL.I love Thai food and roast dinners and pretty much everything in between, especially if I am sharing that meal with good company. I am passionate about Animal rights even though I cannot bring myself to become a vegetarian, which is something I am not proud of. I love my dogs (Chip &I come with no baggage, no previous marriages or kids. In fact, I am pretty boring when it comes to history and you would get change using one hand :) I am a mellow person, I am afraid if your the kind of person who likes to recreate a scene from Eastenders, your not the person for me, life / work is stressful enough with out having stress at home. Bottom line, if you looking for someone who wont ever hurt you, cheat on you and will always be there for you, please get in touch. I started for my current employer in ***and got promoted to Manager back in ***. I love my Job, I have great customers and fantastic staff. Maybe that I have been in the same job for so long says 'I lack ambition' but seriously there is more to life than money. I get a good salary, nice car and a reasonable pension so basically I am happy with my lot.I am looking for a friend, someone to talk to, to have a laugh with. Someone who is easygoing and pretty mellow like me. Hopefully an animal lover, and someone who really does like the outside world. I am unusual I guess as I am drawn to ladies who smile, and I find eyes very attractive, I am not anti cleavage or anti nice clothes, but its the eyes and lips that get my attention. (I know this is odd for a man, but hay ho thats me!) Other features are not important, big, tall, small, thin, big boobs, small boobs, one leg longer than the other, etc... these really are not issues... :) I am pretty open minded about most things, and I do like to say what I like, and I appreciate a partner being the same in all aspects and most definitely in the bedroom.’t be frightened I am not into anything too kinky... Another unusual aspect of me is that I am not looking for anything casual, I am looking for someone I can really get to know, by ***, ***, texts, then phone calls, and eventually meet, and if things go well enough after several dates, then we can see how things go.If you managed to get to the end of this profile, wow thanks.Derek Blower Well first dates are pretty intimidating so I find its hard to beat, having a few glasses of wine, and a nice meal in a place my date feels comfortable, maybe your favourite restaurant or local pub. Second dates can be a little bit more exciting, maybe a sporting event or maybe watching a live band...... Date 14 a Spa weekend in the lake district.. Date 31 weekend away in somewhere romantic... Date ***, scuba diving in the Seychelles... etc

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese English Japanese Middle Eastern Animation Music Mystery Romance Bowling Volleyball
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