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Abishai, 44
United States, Kansas, Wellington

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 09:53:04

About Me

’t look my age. I am a social drinker, non-smoker and drug free. Employed, own my own home, live alone. I have many interests: gardening, wine tours, movies, cooking, dancing, music, water activities, pool, darts, cycling, astronomy, sci-fi, hiking, taking day trips/weekend get-always/vacations, wine tastings. I love learning something new every year and have a To-Do list that I need to get working on. Although I may seem like someone always on the go, I do value those quiet moments at home or staying local, discovering a new restaurant or attraction. I am looking for someone that is also seeking a serious relationship. I value intelligence, a sense of humor, self-confidence and a little wise-ass at times mixed with a good dose of romance, passion, open-mindedness and a willingness to try new things. I would like to meet someone who likes the outdoors, beaches, staying fit and who shares some common interests as myself. Not looking for someone that completes me or competes with me but rather we both compliment each other. I would love to do this in the company of a like-minded woman. A pet lover would be a big plus!Side Note: Can any woman out there explain to me the need to have a male co-worker come over just to be their "nap buddy" and "spooning partner" and expect nothing else to happen??? LOL Well meeting for the first time is more like a Meet & Greet, not a date. Everyone does the standard drinks or coffee, which is fine but lets shake up that standard. How about coffee and browsing books in B&N? Or *** drinks why not a wine tasting or drinks in a non-franchise establishment?As for an official first date, something simple like dinner in a quiet setting where we can talk and hear each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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