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Abishai, 44
United States, Kansas, Wellington

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About Me

’t look my age. I am a social drinker, non-smoker and drug free. Employed, own my own home, live alone. I have many interests: gardening, wine tours, movies, cooking, dancing, music, water activities, pool, darts, cycling, astronomy, sci-fi, hiking, taking day trips/weekend get-always/vacations, wine tastings. I love learning something new every year and have a To-Do list that I need to get working on. Although I may seem like someone always on the go, I do value those quiet moments at home or staying local, discovering a new restaurant or attraction. I am looking for someone that is also seeking a serious relationship. I value intelligence, a sense of humor, self-confidence and a little wise-ass at times mixed with a good dose of romance, passion, open-mindedness and a willingness to try new things. I would like to meet someone who likes the outdoors, beaches, staying fit and who shares some common interests as myself. Not looking for someone that completes me or competes with me but rather we both compliment each other. I would love to do this in the company of a like-minded woman. A pet lover would be a big plus!Side Note: Can any woman out there explain to me the need to have a male co-worker come over just to be their "nap buddy" and "spooning partner" and expect nothing else to happen??? LOL Well meeting for the first time is more like a Meet & Greet, not a date. Everyone does the standard drinks or coffee, which is fine but lets shake up that standard. How about coffee and browsing books in B&N? Or *** drinks why not a wine tasting or drinks in a non-franchise establishment?As for an official first date, something simple like dinner in a quiet setting where we can talk and hear each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Skorpios. I am never married other caucasian man without kids from Wellington, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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  • Sebastian from Wellington | Man | 44 years old | Taurus
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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Enjoy both playing and listening to music. been very much into hard rock/heavy metal for a long time but friends have introduced me to other types of music recently which has opened up a whole new listening experience.I love swimming, especially snorkelling with my youngest daughter (who encourages me to go in the sea when its way too cold). I enjoy cycling, at a social pace rather than racing although my son does put me through my paces when we go out.Into trying different foods, both cooking myself and dining out although I have to confess to not understanding vegetarian food.I have a keen interest in buildings and architecture - hence the geek tab.very happy socialising, quizzing, live music but equally content with a good book and a warm fire.Lets Change the Weather - just because its raining doesn't mean we cant make it feel like the sun is shinning. Meet up for a tea or coffee, social stroll along a beach/park. Something casual to chat and get to know each other better.

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  • Emilio from Wellington | Man | 44 years old | Gemini
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    Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

    Wanted: Someone who is confident in themself, yet not a snob. Someone who smells like flowers or something nice. Someone who can carry a conversation without always talking about themself. Someone who is adventurous, yet not trying to relive their youth. Someone who likes to smile, and still has all their teeth. Someone who has a sense of humor, yet knows how to laugh and be laughed at. Someone who takes care of their body, yet doesn't focus on always being at the gym. Someone who eats healthy, yet still eats unhealthy from time to time and doesn't make others self consious (in a bad way) of food. Someone who knows how much to drink and is not dependant on alcohol to function. Someone who is honest, yet knows when to talk about it. Someone who knows how to text, yet knows that some things are better communicated in a phone conversation or even face to face. Someone who likes to rub/scratch my back, I would always reciprocate. I wonder if someone is out there like that...I am open and honest. I'm not here to see how many girls I can talk to or date. I'm just looking for one. My kids are very important to me and I am close to my family. I have a full time job! LOL. Also, sorry but I don't have any shirtless photos and I have a full set of teeth. LOL. I hope to make you laugh and take the edge off of life a little bit. Smile, laugh and enjoy our time together is what I'm after. No promisses after that. I just don't travel down the path because everyone else does. I have a corny sense of humor and don't take myself too seriously. I often am a leader and decision maker, but welcome when others take the lead. I'm not trying to re-live my youth, but do enjoy doing some youthful things. Am I confusing? Probably. Well send me a note and we can chat. Maybe I can fill in the gaps. Casual meeting to talk and get to know you. Public places are the best.

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