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Errol, 45

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About Me

FYI, since some are too lazy to simply google a definition:Definition of PHILISTINE (Fr.- b) lacking in or hostile or smugly indifferent to cultural values, intellectual pursuits, aesthetic refinement, etc., or is contentedly commonplace in ideas and tastes. c) rigidly conventional. A natural tendency for intellectual curiosity and the arts is greatly appreciated.Look, I'm a man, and in dealing with my gender, I know that most men are boorish stupid philistines. I'm not of that ilk. My mother encouraged me to read as a young man and to be curious about the world, culture, history, the arts and sciences. So I think a bit deeper than the "average Joe", and am blessed with wit, can talk on a number of various subject matter, and have a wicked sense of humor as well. It would be nice to meet someone that appreciates all that, but I'm not gonna hold my breath, I'd pass out. I want Friendship, Companionship and then a Relationship...in that order, and over TIME. I want for each of us to have our own independence, but when we are together, or apart, we're one. I am looking for my soul mate, but have no delusions that THAT is easily attainable, but you never know. I'm not perfect and I'm not looking for perfection, but be somewhat attractive and not obese please. I workout and diet part-time and appreciate someone that at least gives a modicum of sh!t about their health. I'm not being superficial, just know what I like. Also, to the bipolar drama wack-o's out there ... been there done that, please stay away. Now all that being said, let's eat, drink and be merry ! Don't care

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wally

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Hello and thanks for taking the time to read my profile!! Well I do not usually talk about myself but I will try for the sake of hopefully finding a woman to complete me. I am the type of person that will help anyone with anything if I can, I am open to try new things, and actually have manner and morals. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve which I have found out that isn't always a good thing unfortunately. I enjoy all genre of music except that death metal crap, I am a gearhead that loves to tinker with vehicles and can fix nearly anything that is broken(I have a little bit of MacGuyver in me!). I like to bowl, throw darts, shoot pool, camping, walks in the moonlight, and laying on the couch snuggling. I am a pretty basic guy and I am not needy. My current goal is to find a nice woman that has a good head on her shoulder and knows what she wants. I can say however that if you are a person that meets someone but likes to keep "fishing" so to speak, please keep moving on. If I am interested in a woman, I treat her with respect and make sure she feels secure in knowing there is nobody else. I am an honest person whether it is a good or bad situation and I expect nothing but honesty in return. I am personally sick n tired of women lying to either try and make themselves look good or covering up something. I apologize for sounding a little calloused there but I for one am tired of getting screwed over. I'm too old for games!! If there is anything else you would like to know, feel free to ask!! As for a first date, I suppose it could be anything from the traditional dinner and a movie to something as extreme as skydiving! I would actually prefer to see what my date thinks first before a decision is made that way both of us would have a great time.

  • Mathew

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    HELLO! So…I grew up in So Cal but have lived out of state for 8 years...I'm back in Cali now but not living in the same area I did when I left; All that said, I might as well be new to the state!; I am very happy with the relaxing and still convenient life style and all of the open space...not that I wouldn't love living at the beach again; that will come if its meant to be;I really love a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and that likes hanging out on a sailing or lake boat as much as she likes going to a black-tie party…. I really enjoy long conversations about almost anything, I just like to know what makes a person tick. Psychology has always intrigued me; why do people do what they do? I really like a woman that is passionate about her goals and is working towards them. I don’t necessarily mean professional goals, any life goals can be just as important and inspiring…I really love charitable goals, there is nothing better than someone who is passionate about giving back! I don’t really understand people who don’t at least try to make forward progress in their lives. The way I see it, if your not moving forward and setting new goals as you achieve your old ones, you are just dying. I’m really open minded socially and politically and really don’…that’s really unfair?; I'm always willing to explain exactly how I feel about something. A few years back I went through, by far, the lowest point in my otherwise charmed life; it taught me a lot about myself. I’ve learned to be more compassionate, accepting, and kind to people who are just having a rough time in their lives. I really didn’t understand how hard life can be prior to this dark period in my own life, when it seemed like things would never get better, can you relate? All of that is behind me now and I’m moving up quickly again. The great part is, that I’m a much better person as a result of those dark days. So, if you've been there or you ARE there, I probably CAN comprehend and relate...believe it or not! I will do my best to help if we become friends…I am a fun loving very active person. I love to ride my mountain bikes or my off road motorcycle; I like 4X4’ing, but recently sold my 68’ Bronco Rock Crawler. I Love, love, love playing volleyball, especially two-man sand, on the beach of course! I like to camp, RV, wake board/wake surf or just surf in the ocean. I am a hard core water-baby and am as comfortable in the water as on land. I also enjoy diving, snorkeling, playing tennis, and golf (but I do suck at golf and I don't care...so up tight golfers don't like me!). I love all sorts of boating especially sailing in the tropics (I went to a sailing academy years ago to learn to be a bare-boat charter captain...so I sail and you drink Pena Colada's!). As you can guess, I like adventures and all active stuff; I have traveled to more countries than I can recall on multi-month excursions. Also, I have been to most of the states but haven’t seen as much of em’ as I would like, so more road trips (or flying around) is in the cards! I am an amateur photographer/art promoter and am starting to publish (I can’t say I’m a “pro” unless I actually make money from it…right?). I really enjoy meeting new people over a great class of wine, a craft brew beer or just a coffee/tea…you won't get any pressure from me. I certainly don’t expect anything romantic just because we connected through a dating site, so please don't stress about what us meeting means or doesn’t mean. I just like to take it easy and see what happens…OK? I like to say: “I don’t like anyone who doesn't like me” and I really mean that…I feel sorry for my female friends who have been unfortunate enough to meet a miss-guided guy that they couldn't get rid of!Also, just an FYI, I’m not big on much electronic communication before meeting someone in person (isn't it kind of a waste of time?). I feel like there is absolutely no way to figure out if you have any sort of chemistry with someone unless you meet face to face...good old quality time together! I’m perplexed as to why someone would want to find a pen-pal (or avoid meeting in real life) on a dating site unless they were being deceptive…Well, if you like any part of what I have to say, give it a try and we can get to know each other…Worse case scenario, you’ll end up with a new friend who invites you to do fun stuff! G I am very creative, yet also analytical. I am the type to make suggestions, but respectful enough to ask what you enjoy. PLEASE do not confuse that with being indecisive. I can make plans and handle business! However, I would like to learn about what makes you happy, and how you prefer to spend your time, and plan something we will both enjoy.I am easy; I can handle any environment. I respect others enough to know that not everyone has the same comfort level. To be realistic, if we start with something on your terms in your comfort zone, whether a few preliminary phone conversations, coffee, tea, lunch or dinner, I am comfortable regardless. I prefer to meet for a drink and/or dinner. No movie. No super loud environment.My friends describe me as a nice guy, a modern man's man, a former bad-boy, and a respectful and driven person with old-fashioned values and a big, kind heart.

  • Letmechopit4Cq

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 28-44

    Hi! My name is Letmechopit4Cq. I am separated other caucasian man with kids from Wathena, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

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