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Jefferson, 44
United States, Kansas, Wamego

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Positive, spontaneous, loving and extremely loyal, I am seeking a companion, friend and, eventually, a lover who will will enjoy the development of our relationship slowly and organically, with no artificial pushes, no pressure for anything more serious (before it is appropriate) and lots of happy times.In exchange for openness, honesty, affection, laughter and companionship, I promise the same and more...Well, I can't promise that I won't make mistakes because I will. That is certain. But I CAN promise that I'll apologize for those mistakes with sincerity and that I'll make good on attempts to fix any damage I've done...I can also understand and be forgiving when you make mistakes, too. It is something we can do for each other, if you are "that girl" (which we won't know on the first date, or even the third, but when we know, we'll know!).And, if you ARE "that girl," I also promise to stand by your side, be there every time you need me ***without fail ***and to bring joy, laughter, pleasure and spontaneity to your life...with zeal.I can also promise to be a true and caring friend, to do my best not to make you hurt for my own past hurts, not to mistake you for a ghost from the past, and to be honest with you about my feelings, no matter how hard it may be for me...beyond that: I promise to tread carefully on your heart and in your life.I am looking for someone who wants me to make good on these promises...and who is ready to make good on his, similar promises, in return....She must be capable of straight talk, of giving as much as she receives...and be a fearless adventurer, not afraid to love or be loved or to trust (you don't have to bungee jump off high buildings, if that's what you were thinking...).Who I am:I'm a strong, independent, active and positive man who focuses HARD on his family, friends and profession. This means I exercise (and "play" hard) regularly (every day), that I love deeply and endlessly and want some to share the ride withh.I have a full and happy life, but want more, so here I am....know, though, that I came onto this site to meet someone for ME, not for my children. As a result, you won't hear me talk about blending families or even groups of friends for a LOOOONNNNGGGGG time. Really. I believe we should know each other very well before imposing one another on other people's lives.You'll scare me away if you suggest this...so, go slow okay?But do go...absolutely...go! . . I hope you already know the path it takes because I don't want to have to teach this to anyone...it is positive, open, moves forward and grows deeper. If it doesn't there is no point in it. And it's FUN, too! Filled with laughter and joy, playful times and lots of smiles....negativists need not apply! I hope when we meet that I'll like you for your brains...and your body (also for your eyes, face, smile!), too...I can't deny it. For me, intellectual, emotional and physical attraction are imperative. If I don't have them, I can't get to the good stuff that comes next: strong emotional bonding, an irrevocable friendship and an ever-growing respect for one another...to you being "that guy."I recognize that some of those characteristics are easier to come by than others...but I will not settle until I have "the whole enchilada!" I'll surprise ya...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Funk Photography British Canadian Indian Korean American Football Snowboarding Soccer / Football
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