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Wilbur, 41
United States, Kansas, Peabody

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About Me

Attraction ~ Communication ~ Chemistry ~ Best Friends ~ Love = A Life TogetherI'm 51, not 41, wasn't a mistake and not ready to retire into a rock'n chair. This has been the sweet spot on here anyways, my age group just hasn't cut it.I divorced in early ***after 22yrs of marriage with two great kids***& 25. I'm an honest guy with Polish background with a big heart. I care about people... maybe too much sometimes, love my family, enjoy outdoors more than indoors. I'm easy going and live a simple life. I don't subscribe to cable but love to watch movies, play tennis, bicycle and walk. I probably haven't taken a sick-day at work in over 15 years. Going up to the family cottage has always been special for me. I never smoked cigarettes, but I'll occasionally smoke a pipe... that's my glass of wine to relax and drift away. Quittings no problem, I'm just bored. I'm one of those friendly guys that say hi to everyone. I'm still young at heart, very dependable and solid. I love listening to music, so its always on (no rap). I don't watch sports, but if you do, so will I. If you love musicals, I'll warn you now that I'm a little behind because the last one I went to was CATs in ***:-) I'm more spiritual than religious.I'm a simple guy that doesn't need to be impressed, just be yourself. I don't like fake people. Small chest... so what, as long as they're real and stay that way. I know what I want in a woman. I don't want a piece of meat, if I did I'd go to a butcher or a bar. I'm here for a keeper. I'd like a woman who is happy with herself and not need to change her hair colour every three months. Looking for someone who is grounded and doesn't live out of a suitcase. If you can still sport a spaghetti top *** a shawl, your not to old for me. "Age doesn't matter unless you're cheese". If two people find a connection and are on the same wavelength, nothing else matters.I'm looking for someone who doesn't get hammered every weekend, has a two-ton handbag of cosmetics, wants to live life, have fun, sweet, young at heart, loves to smile and laugh, not scared to hang up a bra and go skinny dipping, has some country in her, loves the sun, loves nature, is a very caring person, has a huge heart, eats healthy, slim and loves to be active... Regular activities no sweat, I love watching and supporting.I'm allergic to cats, but they do make pills for that, & I'm staying out of east-.. the traffic - no thanks! I was born and raised in Bloor West Village, so I have always been a west-ender ;-) It would be a bonus if you lived near-by for those quick hello's.I have kept my New Years resolution and have not sent a first message out yet this year. A first time for everything. (**Update, 1 message now). If you think we are on the same level, send me a hello. If I think you are on the ball, I will send a reply. Use the Meet Me if you like, I don't get freaked out about it like some others. I figure it's an easy ice breaker. Love is blind, but I'm not, so please a photo is a must or you don't get past the firewall. ~ A picture is worth a thousand words ~Good luck eBay'ing for your perfect mate! Go through a car wash, or maybe just find a place for coffee :-) Something simple.I'm not here to be a soup kitchen for the women who look for their free meal & drinks every weekend.Well, if you wanted honesty... you got it :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Drama Family & Kids Music Sailing
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