Alysdair, 45
Online
About Me
First of all. I want to say that I'm not on here for "one nighters", and I'm not into "chronic daters". I am here to "hopefully", find the woman of my dreams, and be the man of hers. I have never been married. Still holding out for a woman I can be perfect for, and her for me. I'm the kind of guy that likes to send you a random text saying "I miss you", or "I love you", to let you know you're on my mind and that you mean a lot to me. I like to leave a nice card just laying around, and let you find it when I'm away at work. Romance and love aren't just for "special days". Every day is special. Especially if you're lucky enough to be in love with someone that loves you back! So burn the nice candles, use the silk sheets, drink the good wine, and enjoy fresh cut flowers every day. An evening cooking dinner together can be very romantic if you want it to be. I work in the oil and gas industry, and I'm usually working 9 days on, and 5 days off. Some women don't like that, however, after 9 days apart, the following five are always packed full of fun, not to mention, waiting nine days to be able to cuddle in bed, means we have to take a full one to make up for lost time! I am very affectionate, and I enjoy giving as much, or more than receiving. I like to be out doing something all the time, but I also like the odd day, just spending time with my girl. Even spend the whole in bed. I have always been into music. Played drums since I was 8 years old, and started singing and playing in a band at 14. I love to go and jam with a band when possible, and sing a couple once in awhile if I can break through the shyness. I'm working on guitar now, SIGHHH.. It's tougher than it looks! My family is very much into music, and when e get together, you can always find someone singing and playing a few around the fire. So if you love music, or can sing or play a bit, you score huge points with this guy!!! I also love to find old furniture at garage sales or second hand stores, and refinish it. It's relaxing, and it feels good to take something all beat up, and turn it into something beautiful. I have built a lot of furniture for family and friends in the past, and it's really gratifying when I visit and see a piece that I built. My Dad's a mechanic, and I and I learned a ton from him over the years. I can fix anything, and build pretty much anything! (ya..I'm bragging, but isn't this the time to do it???) I enjoy camping and getting away to the mountains whenever possible. I golf, play ball, and I'd like to start playing volleyball again. I would like to get a large lot on the lake someday and build my dream home. This city living is not that appealing anymore, and I'm more into having a large "park like" space, with a big fire pit , and have friends and family over for BBQs and fires etc. I don't want a ***s ft monster, but a modest home with special attention to the important features. I would like a beautiful kitchen with professional grade appliances, and a big eating bar with seating for about eight! I love to cook and I'm pretty good at it. I love to have friends over and have some nice wine, and cook up a bunch of awesome treats to go with it. If you like to entertain at home, we would be a good match! I want a nice bedroom with a king size bed, and big jetted tub, and a huge tv and amazing sound system to play music through. Has to be the perfect lighting too!!! There is nothing better than having the perfect music on, with the perfect mix of candles and incense, and the person you love in your arms! To me, that's the reason I we work so hard..........to be able to have moments like that. I like most types of music, except rap. I only like a couple rap songs. So to wrap this up. I would have to say that I'm easy on the eyes, with better than average body. I try to look after myself and I care about my appearance. I am a very loving and affectionate guy, and I want a girlfriend the same. I like to go out and dance, go to concerts, games and nice dinners etc. However, I also love making a nice romantic dinner together, sharing a nice bottle of wine, some candles too, and listening to a nice album! OH YA!!! I give the best massages you've ever had!!!. HONESTLY,, I DO!! 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEED ( I won't stop until you're happy!) ;pOne thing I can also guarantee is, I will NEVER be unfaithful.I HAVE BEEN THROUGH THAT AND I WON'T EVER MAKE ANOTHER PERSON HAVE TO FEEL THAT BECAUSE OF ME! I enjoy a drama free life, with laughter, harmony, mutual respect, and love. I just want to mention, and I don't want to sound negative here, however,I don't believe in spending too much time communicating on meetville. I will want to meet you in person if I feel we have a spark there. I'm not into hiding behind a laptop screen either! I look like my pictures, and the words I used to describe myself are very accurate. I am looking for the same. I am an attractive guy, I am in good shape, and I have very good manners. I am looking to meet a lady with the same. There Is no point in meeting up, to find that you look nothing like your picture, and you're nothing like your descriptions.That's just a waste of our time. Please!!!! don't fill up my mailbox if you know we aren't a match. And if you think we might be, let me know! Cheers!! Good Luck out there!Vince. I don't really care what we do for our first date. I just hope that the next day, I can't wait to see you again!! The heart just knows when it's right, and I hope you capture my heart on our first date. I always hoped that would happen someday, and maybe you will be the one to do that! I guess going out for a nice dinner is a good start, and if we're still interested, figure it out from there. If not, maybe we have at least made a friend.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
woman
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Relationship
Never married
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
6'0"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
Yes, socially
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS