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United States, Kansas, Paola

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About Me

V 2.0 I was described once as "WYSIWYG" - What you see is what you get. I am an open person. No secrets or skeletons in my closet. I truly believe in openess and honesty. Sometimes that is a good thing and sometimes it's not. I am definitely sure that not alot of women are used to it. I do my very best to avoid drama and always try to find a solution to any problem. I have shared custody of my 10 year old daughter on alternate weekends. She is my light, my joy, my inspiration. My divorce was amicable and no drama there whatsoever. My goals are simple, to laugh, live and hopefully love. What makes me unique, I truely care about people and try to do my best for them. I believe in being a gentleman all the time. I know how a woman should be treated. And believe it or not, I wear my heart on my sleeve too. I also consider myself to be passionate. Chivalry is not dead, I always practice it. In short, I really am the "nice guy". :) In my spare time, I like to sketch and paint. I enjoy movies and the occasional video game. I get out and walk when the weather lets me but I don't let the rain stop me either. I haven't been camping in ages. Don't even own a sleeping bag. My idea of roughing it is slow room service. :) What would I like it a partner? Some to share moments with. Cuddle up and watch a movie together. To share how our day went. Work together to create a wonderful meal. Walk hand in hand along the beach. To share those kisses that makes it feel like time has stopped for that moment. Because at the end of the day it's now how many breathes we take but how many moments took our breath away. PS: Sometimes I browse on my Iphone so the chat function doesn't work. "I'm not perfect, but I keep trying 'Cause that's what I said I would do from the start" -

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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