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Anakin, 42
United States, Kansas, Paola

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About Me

I have great friends. They are all brilliant and magnificent and unique – they are un-boring, they are creative and they have style, they challenge me, they broaden my world and they make me laugh. They are bitingly sarcastic but without a hint of meanness – I do go for the irreverent and ironic. They care about the important things which I suppose is a presumptuous thing to say (assuming i know what the important things are – just ask me if you want to know)– the important things tend to fall in the very liberal side of the spectrum.My family is the foundation of all that I am. They are my rock and there is nothing I wouldn't do for them. I speak to my sister every day.Would it be shallow of me to say such a thing like "my iPod has improved the quality of my life"? I love my iPod.Recently bought a motorcycle – it is the cat's ass - or possibly something less vulgar that conveys that I totally dig it. "No zeal like the zeal of the convert" as they say.– and caused a few scary situations) I just love it even more.The last thing that made me bust out laughing was in an episode of Flight of the Concords, Bret was wearing a pair of gloves that look like hands... I want gloves that look like handsAbout 5 years ago I joined a volunteer group called Engineers Without Borders (I'm an engineer in my everyday life here). I get to use all this engineering knowledge I’ve gained and I get to put it to use for something other than my job - my efforts go toward real, immediate change for people who have no resources, and also, the world becomes my personal erector set – awesome. I’ve been going on at least 2 trips a year for these projects in Central and South America. They are humbling, rewarding, terrifying and thrilling, and bonus... there are always hammocks, and I’ve been promising myself after every trip I’d get a hammock as soon as I get home. Finally did it, had to construct an additional support post on my deck (may get a call from my association on that) but finally got the hammock - it rocks, it will be well used this summer.I have learned to live life boldly, take some risks, raise my expectations of myself and I find that i have stories worth telling. I have some crazy-cool stories and I can tell them well. The best stories are when things go wrong, or when an obstacle presents itself that seems too big to resolve, when the things you couldn’t possibly have predicted to happen … happen. Like when the land you are working on is "invaded" by squatters, or when the entire mountain you are on catches on fire and you hope it doesn’t cross the river. I love the ups and the down equally. I also love being lazy. I work hard on the things I am passionate about and then I’ll watch a bunch of garbage TV.I recently caught the opening scene of Blade Runner (it's been a while). It's the year ***which at this point isn't that far off) and it was raining. They have flying cars and robots that can pass as humans. But, what I noticed was that umbrella technology had not progressed at all... really? c'mon, ***and still the same clumsy wind catcher? Also, the future is very crowded.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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