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Greyson, 42

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About Me

Well, here I am. The place where I have to try to describe myself to make me seem appealing to someone. I am honest and straightforward. I know many people make this claim. I have been told I am too honest and too straightforward, but that is just how I am. Simply put, if I say it, I mean it. I expect the same in return.Yes, I am a fluffy guy. A cuddly teddy bear, really. I have tried to take care of myself, but have had trouble in that regard. Mainly due to a disability. I have trouble walking (I need a cane) and deal with pain on a daily basis. I mention this because it is part of my life and I want to make it clear I am NOT looking for someone to take care of me, rather for someone to share my life with.I am a single father. I have 3 children, 2 that live with me. An 8 year old girl and a 16 year old boy. They are good kids, dependable and honest, like their father. My daughter is a bundle of energy at times. She can wear a person out with her enthusiasm. A characteristic I am trying hard to encourage her to keep as long as possible. I have been divorced for over 2 years. I have dated a few women in that time, but I do not play around. I will only date one woman at a time. I have always said how far and how fast a relationship goes will be up to you. If you are concerned about men here only looking for sex, I am not one of them. A few women that I met here I dated for several months and sex never happened. I don't believe in casual dating, friends with benefits, or one nighters. I am looking for the woman who wants to be with me for the next several thousand nights, not just one.Favorite quotes:The man may do his courting, dance, woo, cavort and strut his macho stuff...but it is the woman who decides. - Dirk BenedictI was pondering the immortal words of Socrates who said...I drank what? - Chris Knight (Val Kilmer)Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves. - I have had such a terrible time of this that I have all but given up. Sending messages to women, trying to open the lines of communication, only to be ***, or worse, insulted. I will check back once a day or so, but I just can't see myself casting out my line very much anymore. There is fishing and there is self-torture, and I am done with the latter. first date would have to be discussed. first meet would have to be somewhere public, a quiet place to sit and talk and get a feel for each other. A first meet could turn into a first date if things go well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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