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Abdon, 45
United States, Kansas, Paola

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About Me

Hi there. I'm a busy fella, but making more time for me. When I meet a friend, they are my focus. If I say I'm going to be here, or I'll do that, I will. I mean what I say, it means everything. All I have to offer is this big heart and the best I can give. I don't need your material things, Just your eyes in mine, and your heart going in the same direction. Sunset and sun up, my partner thru thick and thin. To walk beside me, and know where we want to go as a couple. Just promise me to let us get to know each other and spark the friendship. Don't jump in with both feet first. Take our time, cause that's what its about, the journey...Just a note: I do read profiles and try to understand what most women are trying to say. But as you read mine, keep in mind, we (being men) are not all made from the same mold. I for one do accept the lady I'm with with all the respect in the world, no matter if we just met or we've been together for years. So please, keep an open mind and smile as you type to me, as I'm smiling as I open my msg and read. ...Ohh and ladies, its the 21st century, its ok to say hello first ;)So who I'm looking for, hmm...someone who's honest, caring, DOESN'T take things a face value. ( There seems to be a lot of that). A lady thru and thru. Checks the baggage at the door, and comes with an open mind. Someone who loves life. If you have kids, I don't have a problem with that. I need to know you, and if its a package deal, no worries. I'm quiet, don't want to attract attention, so if you want to say hi, lets start there.If your interested.... "Learning to Live Again" Its not to far from how I feel about starting again :) Coffee or a drink, see what we can agree too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop R&B Adult Family & Kids History American Football
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