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Hipolito, 45
United States, Kansas, Paola

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About Me

Hey, I have two small boys 6 and 7, so I'm looking for someone who understands the commitments that someone with children has. Whatever you're up for - I'm game. I have season tickets to the Bears and I just, as of this year, gave up my season tickets to the Cubs. Talk about being in a bad relationship!! I think that is the definition of being a Cubs fan. So I absolved myself of that relationship and who knows?? Maybe, I could like the Reds...... Bears season is as I would like to call it 'Bears Church' where on Sunday morning you show up at 8am, religiously, and start tailgating for the noon game, and then cheer the Bears on to what is hopefully victory! They start the season opener September 8th against the Bengals at Soldier Field and I am excited! I am not in the least bit conflicted there :). I am a survivor and I am one of those bad mortgage brokers that sold subprime loans.... (really they did help a lot of people). I had my own business and what the market forces didn't finish off government regulations did, so now I work for big banks again. I currently am an Underwriter and I like my job. I get to help people get or keep there homes so you do feel that you are having a positive influence on people's lives. The mortgage market is ever changing but I have worked in it for 20 years now and I see myself moving up in an *** staying in the business. It's a good life. This year I would like to take some long weekend trips. Maybe a cabin in Brown County, IN hiking, maybe a wine trip to Northern VA, or maybe a weekend fishing somewhere, or maybe something else. All I know is that you can't just work to pay bills and that fun is important. Also, when you find the right person, the fun becomes funner. ]]]]]] Meeting in a coffee shop of some other public place would be good. I think on the first date you should keep that brief and if it goes well then make plans for date two.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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