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Hamza, 44
United States, Kansas, Paola

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Please please PLEASE....... will one of you wonderful and lovely ladies get me off this whacky site? :-)Trying something new.....I am a nice guy. No BS- not sickly-sweet nice, but a good and decent person.I am laid back- not boring, not unable to hold a conversation, but just relaxed. Life is way to short to travel through it all wound up. I have been told I have a calming affect on people. That comes in handy at work. (And is partially a result of my work)I am not very photogenic- I look better in person. This is from other people not from me. I have no excess baggage- no kids, no ex-wives. I have been asked "what is wrong with you?". Ummmm........ nothing is wrong with me- if I wasn't a nice guy I would have responded with "Well, since you are divorced, what is wrong with YOU?". Watch the movie "The Hurt Locker" and/or google "EOD" and "UXO" to get a feel for what my career entails. On that note, I don't have a college degree, nor do I need one. I am probably smarter than most of the masters degree holders, PHD's etc. that you know. I am very well read, and travelled, and can hold a conversation on almost any subject. The "must have a 4 year degree" requirement is almost the same thing as saying "Must have been in a fraternity/sorority." In a way, shallow and narrow minded. I have a job that requires me to be very competent- as in peoples lives depend on it competent. To make my point that degrees are nice but not everything (Not trying to impress anyone, or attract a "sugar baby") ......I make well above the average of what your degreed fiends make. Physical attraction is important- far from the only thing I am seeking but it is a vital component of a healthy relationship. I am not looking for a one night stand or a "hook up". Don't take me wrong, I love the physical part of a relationship- sex is wonderful, but with the right person, at the right time, in the right relationship. I am completely 100% not married, no girlfriend, not dating around. I am not going to see anyone else if I am dating you. I don't understand infidelity- why be with someone if the relationship is not good enough to remain monogamous? I will gladly get off this crazy site if I meet someone and become involved. I am physically affectionate- holding hands, walking with a beautiful lady on my arm, random soft caresses just because I care for you, long intense kisses- that is all me. If you are not receptive to that and appreciate it we are not a match. I refuse to *** forth 50 times. Why do that??? If you get a good feeling from the first few messages get on the dang phone!. And then if that goes well go on a date! ;-) The idea is to actually meet someone you click with and want to see again. You cannot determine that until you actually meet.I am my stated age. I am my stated height. My pictures are not 10 years old and I am not overweight. I am not a weirdo, creeper, perv, socially inept "internet wanna be don juan", I am not a stalker, nor desperate, and if things didn't work out you will never hear from me again if that is your desire. If you are looking for an interesting, fun, attractive, confident (but not arrogant- I despise a-holes), real, funny, handy, available guy, and you're interesting, attractive, smart (common sense counts), then message me. Or simply answer my message when I send one.No pics, no response. Height/weight proportional is mandatory. Sorry if the above sounds a bit stern but I am tired of running around in circles..........- doesn't really matter in fact, it is all about the two people and their chemistry together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Spanish Adventure Comedy Crime Horror Sci-Fi
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