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Allen, 43
United States, Kansas, Osawatomie

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About Me

I am still searching for a woman who is willing to consider or commit to a long term relationship and foresee ably marriage. I have been in a few long term relationships that should have ended sooner but I was either naïve to the situation or hoping that they would either be better in communicating, trusting, or compromising. Past 2 relationships which equaled 7 years were both my fault for thinking they were trustworthy and committed until I find out otherwise. With that said, if I begin a relationship I expect that she will end any backburner relationships from the past. If she has children and joint custody I totally respect that but anything else must be ended. No sexting either. Once I commit I am in for the long haul. I do not possess the immoral desire to cheat on the woman I am with. I have already sown my oats and I have learned much from all my experiences in life. I am an intellectual and seek the same. I have several friends that I have known for over 28 years now and most of them are married and they are faithful as well to their women. My parents have been married for over 56 years now and that is where I get my morals and values. Although I have no children and have never been married I do enjoy children and I came close to marriage but as I said earlier. They wanted to when they were under the influence but they all were missing different very important qualities that make it last. I could have been married and divorced five times now and with several kids from all of them. But that is not my gig. In addition to being intellectual I would like the woman to be mostly independent, emotionally stable, and preferably attractive. I am not shallow but it is important to maintain chemistry. I will be graduating this year from NAU with BS in Criminal Justice. Have 9 years experience as a Financial Advisor and will couple this with my degree to pursue the field of financial fraud detection and prevention. Currently employed with the Veteran Administration and have an awesome network established to see that I am successful in gaining a well paying job in the future likely with the Federal government.I am 43 year old single male. Come from solid family raised on traditional old fashioned values. Listen to the women and only give advice when asked for it. Have experienced just about everything in this world at least once. I live with no regrets but only experiences I learned from. I love my country very much and plan to work my way up through the system to upper level management of our nation's security. I am pretty vocal about my political beliefs with those I know well and that is why I am not very often debated. In addition, my hobbies include working out, hanging with friends that I have known all my life (So if you need references I got em'), going to movies, biking, cooking, fixing and breaking things, play guitar and have ambitions to make my own one hit wonder song which is compilation of rock rap, jazz, classical, and little bit of country. Play open mic here and there with new ideas on my new passion for flamenco/Spanish style guitar. Overall, I would just say I am down to earth and honest. I usually say what most people are thinking but afraid to say it themselves. I say it like it is or how it seems to be. Would like to first talk on the phone without having to text a ***times before doing so. I feel texting should be brief messages of true information that is needed quickly. Not for dialogue. With that said, if we both felt comfortable would decided where to meet for something to eat, drink, and talk publically. I believe in chemistry and if it is not there it will not hurt my feelings. What does however is someone not willing to take a chance to meet despite that was their original intentions by communicating in the first place.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Funk Chinese South American Spanish Crime Music Mystery Boxing
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