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Efren, 45
United States, Kansas, Neodesha

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It's true, i must warn you, i am a nice guy; sometimes it feels like a curse.I want to meet someone who believes being friends in a relationship is important. Someone that will not hold back on thoughts and feeling; having to try to guess what a partner in a relationship wants isn't the makings for a strong anything. Open, intelligent, humorous and spontaneity is very important. Most of all i just want to find someone that is caring, honest and willing to be themself.I am a good talker as well as a good listener. I am someone that if the time presents itself, can do something out of the ordinary; that is without having to plan ahead of time.I love animals; I don’t have any right now but always enjoy being around my friends pets.Sometimes i just like to take off and drive (as long as gas is under $5 gal, lol), no plans, just drive. granted sometimes i do wind up finding me and my Jeep in the mud, but hey, that's fun too. i can still be a kid, just have bigger toys now.I am always truthful about myself and how I feel. Holding back is not something I do well. As for my appearance and size, I am a big guy with a big heart. also, even though it doesn't show in the pictures, i do have Long Hair. Majority of the time it's tied in a pony tail and i keep very good care of it.Currently i am on LTD from the company i have been with for over 15 years. I'm not lazy, i do try to stay quite active. I've returned to school, taking classes at DeVry working towards my Bachelor's Degree. I'm not here to play games and would appreciate that same kindness in return. If things aren't right or don't work out, i am truthful and will say how I feel. Please be the same with me!If you can't be honest with yourself, why would you think you could be honest with anyone else. I just want that one thing that i believe everyone wants, respect; and if love happens, it happens. i hate saying what it is i want in a partner because i feel like I'm shopping as if i was on BestBuy.com looking for a stereo. Give me the respect i deserve and i will do the same. Lie to me and i won't stay around! It has to be a mutual respect and caring to keep me around and i promise that if that does exist, that you will always know I'm a caring person.is that too much to ask for?if you ***, i will respond. if i ***, i sure hope you can do the same...good or bad, at least it's nice to know! meet for a drink

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adult Horror Mystery
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