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Abijah, 45
United States, Kansas, Neodesha

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About Me

UPDATE: I AM AGNOSTIC. Which to me means that I am unsure if there is a god Why don't I write a book when I say HI to someone for the first time? Because when I say HI to someone on the street I dont start running off at the mouth about my life, so I don't do it here.I believe that if someone takes the time to actually write an ***, I owe it to them to respond, whether I am interested or not. I won't lead them on, but I will say HI back, thats just common courtesy.....Hello everyone, thank you for stopping by. I have one son he is 15 and lives with me. So i can relate to all the single moms out there. I don't drink, no, not at all. I treat my significant other VERY well, for example, I believe in opening the car door for her, I believe in dropping her off at the door when its raining or cold, and I believe in starting her car to warm it up when its cold outside. Even tho I am agnostic I am very christian-like, I am just unsure as to whether god exists or not. I am much better at answering questions than just talking about myself. I like to go fishing, hiking and camping. I would also like to get into rock climbing and at least try sky diving. Ask me anything.I am not attracted to obese girls. I have a few extra pounds and thats ok for a woman too, but if you are obese then I won't be interested. I'm not saying you have to be skinny/unhealthy looking but not obese. I don't care if you think I'm shallow but I know what I like and what I don't like. People can't help what they find attractive. Women whine about not being able to find a good guy, not being able to find a respectful guy, not being able to find a guy with all of his teeth and a car and a job and doesn't live with his parents... You all wouldn't know a good guy if one bit your a***(not breaking the skin of course :***First date, hmmmm, meet at a deli or a park maybe, get to know each other and if the mutual attraction is there then move forward. I am open to suggestions.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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