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Benet, 43

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About Me

Update- If your marital status is marked separated, your are still in a relationship and you should NOT contact me. I won't answer you back. You should finish a relationship before you begin another one. I'm very cautious of who I date. I believe every date is a potential mate. We were created for relationships, what kind depends on chemistry. Dating isn't all about sex. To me its about finding and building a lasting relationship, whether its a romantic relationship or just a friendly relationship (and I don't mean friends with benifits). Simple get to know each other over dinner and possibly a movie.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Deshaun

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    I'm looking for that someone special to start off as friends and then see where it takes us. I enjoy life to the fullest. I love to have a good time and laugh. I also enjoy a good movie on the couch with that someone special. I'm a very easy going kinda guy.I'm a single father of 4 beautiful children. Ages-23, 18, 13 and 12. Oldest is on her own and the 2nd is in college. The other 2 are at home of course. They are my live. I am very active in their lives. I really enjoy going to support them in there sport!I enjoy playing sports myself. I'm a active softball player. Looking to pick up playing hockey again. I love our Colts and I'm also a Bears fan too. I'm really open for anything.

  • Alby

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    Man. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 40-50

    Just a nice guy that enjoys spending most of my free time working around the house doing home improvements, spending time in the mountains hiking and biking..... I like all kinds of music, country, rock, some old school hip hop.....

  • Tristian

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    Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

    Interests: live music, live sports, biking, fishing, boating, skiing, motorcycles (although I dont have ***yet), old cars, building furniture, kissing, snuggling....and too many more to list....Hi! Thanks for taking a look at my profile, aka shameless self-promotion. These things are not the easiest things to write. So, if I don't give you exactly what you're looking for, please message me anyway. That doesnt sound too desperate, right? :-)First off, I'm looking for a woman that is secure in who she is, but who likes to give and receive a lot of attention & affection. I'd like to find a woman with whom I can take my armor off & be, well, vulnerable - there, I said it. And I mean that in a trusting sort-of way, not a needy/fragile "cry on your shoulder constantly" kind of way. I enjoy being a guy's guy, but I also enjoy snuggling up at the end of the day, and I want you feel as comfortable putting your arms around me for a random hug and kiss as I want to with you...k? :-)About me: I love to have fun! 'm a goofball. In a good way. I love to kid around, and joke. But not at anyone's expense. I'm endearingly facetious. My kids think I am crazy, and sometimes they're probably right. And I do tend to push boundaries sometimes. For example, meetville says that sexual language of any kind in this profile will cause my account to be deleted. So I'm wondering if I say something sexually sexual, like the word sex, in a blatantly sexual and kind of sexy way, if that will raise meetville's collective eyebrows. Sex sex sex sex sex.So I suppose if you're reading this, I'm still safe. And if you're convinced by my commentary above that I've got nothing but sex on the brain, don't worry. I only think about it momentarily every 5 minutes. That means that for the other 4 minutes and 58 seconds I'm thinking about all sorts of other things. So you can relax. :-)I do have 2 kids. Both boys. They are my world. I love them dearly. They dont live with me full-time, but they will come first until they're old enough to fly out of the nest. But that doesn't mean that I don't want to find & meet you, and enjoy time with you. Just being straight up. :-)I am separated, not yet divorced. Based upon many conversations with women, that seems to throw up a red flag. So, for purposes of clarification, here's what separation is on my watch. My ex and I worked on our marriage for 3+ Rather than force those issues we decided to turn our attention to making sure that the kids were loved and supported by both of us individually. Therefore, my marital split was and is amicable, so there's no drama there. I'm pledged to keeping it that way, for my kids' sake and my own. It also means that the marriage is over. I am happily separated, and I'm moving forward. I like keeping busy most of the time. I work full time as a distributor rep in the corporate world, and I run a custom remodeling/trim/cabinetry business on the side. I also flip houses when the opportunity presents itself. Of course, this means that if you dont want to go out with me, I'm still available to remodel your kitchen, or put up that crown molding that you've been thinking about for awhile. So, I work hard, and play hard. And I would like to find someone to hang out with, and ultimately be by my side as I do. I have been playing music (drums & percussiom) for 27 years, and that is my true passion. So, if you want someone to go out for live music of almost any genre, I'm most definitely your guy. But, the difference between a musician and a large pizza is that a large pizza can actually feed a family of four, so I opted out of the starving artist thing a LONG time ago. I also enjoy woodworking, furniture refinishing & restoration - yes I will go antiquing with you - biking, skiing (when I get the chance), hiking, fishing, and almost anything to do with the water. I'm always willing to try new stuff. I also take a very active role in coaching my boys, both in sports and in life.Anything else you'd like to know, just ask! Don't be shy. It's only an online message. I'm mostly harmless anyway. Besides, I already know that 4 out of 5 dentists would recommend me to their patients who chew gum, and I'm sure that the fifth dentist would cave with just a little extra pressure.OK - back to serious. If you've actually gotten through this profile without at least smiling, then I'm probably not a match. But if you like to have fun, work hard & play hard - and relax - then send me a message. You'll be glad you did. Hmmm...I have Jeeves pick you up in my ***Duesenberg J limousine. he brings you to the private airstrip, where the G5 engines are already warming up. After the show is over, a team of bodyguards escorts you as you go on a shopping spree at the Venetian with my day's dividends, while I look on. Then, when you're tuckered out, we get back on the jet and fly back east.Or we could hit a cool bar or restaurant, find a quiet table & enjoy getting to know each other...

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