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Hayden, 42

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About Me

I am a 41 yr old guy, separated, and willing to dip my toe in that dating pool again. I am pretty laid back, honest, and have a sarcastic sense of humor, yet I can also be serious when the situation calls for it. I enjoy spending quiet time at home just as much as a wild night on the town. I am definitely not Mr. Handy around the house, but can hold me own and enjoy the challenge of researching a household project and attempting to make it work. I also enjoy World War II history, cooking, going to nice dinners, fantasy football, and going to the range (yes that means firearms). My personality is very curious by default, (translation: I ask questions when I don't get something) and I enjoy educating myself on new topics. I notice that the word 'honesty' comes up in many women's profiles as being important, (as it should be). This seems to imply that a good many men are dishonest, which may or may not be true. Unfortunately it does exist in women too, and it is important that the woman I am with is honest to me. I have one son, who is my pride and joy and do not want any more children at this point in my life. I enjoy every moment I spend with him and loves doing activities like teaching him how to fish, how to hit a baseball, how to look both ways before crossing the street, saying 'please' and 'thank you', and playing him in a COD Black Ops 2 Deathmatch. I enjoy watching pro sports (NFL, MLB, NHL), not a big TV watcher, but enjoy a few random shows. These days I would rather watch a movie or documentary if television is the activity.I am an affectionate person, but I'm also not 'smothering clinger stalker guy'. It makes me feel good to know that I am making the woman I am with feel special. My work is something I enjoy, what I do, not who I am. (In other words, it won't dominate our conversation). I feel that I am knowledgeable about many things, and a genius about nothing.I like to listen to a variety of music, being a child of the 80's, I enjoy that era's music. Industrial, hip-hop, classic rock, heavy metal, etc. Short list of concerts attended within the last 10 years: Blink-Look forward to hearing from you! Something simple, no pressure, someplace quiet so we can get to know each other (meet for drinks, coffee, etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    We've climbed off the Harley on top of a mountain. It's cool, almost crisp. You rub your arms, notice me point into the night air. Tilting your head back, you see stars, so many stars. You ask what that is, and I reply that it is another band of our galaxy, the Milky Way, and its size is so far beyond unimaginable. Your head is tilted back, staring, amazed. You look to me and I smile back with warm happiness. We spend the next several hours talking about the night sky, our memories, listening to nature, and just enjoying each other in the velvet night. Fun? Exciting? Perhaps even exhilarating? Yeah, I'm a geek. I have a wonderful Harley fat boy that I've been all over the United States on. I've seen things that would make a National Geographic magazine look boring. Life is an adventure, and it is to be savored like chocolate covered strawberries and champagne. More importantly, it is to be shared. I'm going to go anyway, I figured that somebody might enjoy it with me. Nothing like a few memories of some of the wonders of this magnificent Earth, shared with a friend. Nothing like seeing amazing trees, or giant deserts or salt flats. Rivers and lakes dazzle the eye with their secret coolness from hot, summer sun. Anyway, I'm a software and systems design architect. I work to be able to have some fun. I am financially stable, have a good job. I have a number of hobbies from reading and writing. I love the outdoors. I like to fish and hunt when I can. I love to have game in the freezer when I can. I like to camp.I am pretty good at building things, and have a pretty good eye for detail. I can make almost anything. Personality wise, I'm pretty gregarious in small groups, but as the crowds get larger, it tends to sap my energy. I feel like I have a pretty solid empathic compass, and can sense through reading body language and other clues someone's emotions and sometimes thoughts. I like making people feel warm and comfortable. I like helping others succeed. I do it because it makes me feel good to be helpful. It's enough to know that I did something nice for someone todayI guess it's important to mention that I love SciFi and Fantasy stuff. I do watch some anime occasionally, though I don't watch any TV. I like audiobooks on trips. I like all kinds of music from classic rock to old blues (Muddy Waters, BB King, etc) I like 80 hair band music. I like some acapella groups and some jazz and country. One of my most constant hobbies (I've had so many over the years, but this one had remained since grade school) is fiction writing. I love writing cool stories about make-believe people. I've written novels, but never published. I guess my writing is for me and the small group of folks who enjoy what I do.On an MBTI scale, I am an ENFP with ENTP tendencies...A little INFP thrown in from time to time for deep introspection and artistic expression, philosophy, and dreaming of amazing things and imaginary worlds. In other words, I'm a lot of fun.Finally, I would like to say that I am not a walking gonad. I want friends and lovers that are cerebral, and being able to talk about things both abstract and concrete is extremely important. I want to know what you think and what you feel, and I will return in kind. It is not my intention or expectation to jump into bed with anyone right away. Sex is wonderful...when you have an intelligent, emotional connection. Otherwise, it is just rutting, which never got much of a rise out of me. The very first would be coffee and some light chatting about each other and our interests. Allowing my imagination to run away with me, I'd say the next would probably be dinner. Perhaps a little wine. We talk, and I learn a little more about you. You learn a little more about me. After dinner, we probably walk-nowhere in particular. The wine from dinner makes your cheeks blush, and you laugh a tinkling laugh that sets my mind at ease. We find some historical monument, and you take off your heels to walk across the grass. I smile and laugh teasing at your wet feet from the sprinkler that had run earlier, but you just grin back, saying that it was no bother. The site is old but very interesting, and we read the inscriptions by street lamp nearby. We've had a good time, but it's time for you to go home. We've had fun. We're both sad its over, but are excited of the prospect of next time. We both look forward to next time.We might kiss our goodbyes and I watch you walk to your front door. You turn your head to look at me, then open your door and step inside.

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