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Hayden, 42
United States, Kansas, Medicine Lodge

Offline, last seen Fri, 06 Feb 2026 17:51:28

About Me

I am a 41 yr old guy, separated, and willing to dip my toe in that dating pool again. I am pretty laid back, honest, and have a sarcastic sense of humor, yet I can also be serious when the situation calls for it. I enjoy spending quiet time at home just as much as a wild night on the town. I am definitely not Mr. Handy around the house, but can hold me own and enjoy the challenge of researching a household project and attempting to make it work. I also enjoy World War II history, cooking, going to nice dinners, fantasy football, and going to the range (yes that means firearms). My personality is very curious by default, (translation: I ask questions when I don't get something) and I enjoy educating myself on new topics. I notice that the word 'honesty' comes up in many women's profiles as being important, (as it should be). This seems to imply that a good many men are dishonest, which may or may not be true. Unfortunately it does exist in women too, and it is important that the woman I am with is honest to me. I have one son, who is my pride and joy and do not want any more children at this point in my life. I enjoy every moment I spend with him and loves doing activities like teaching him how to fish, how to hit a baseball, how to look both ways before crossing the street, saying 'please' and 'thank you', and playing him in a COD Black Ops 2 Deathmatch. I enjoy watching pro sports (NFL, MLB, NHL), not a big TV watcher, but enjoy a few random shows. These days I would rather watch a movie or documentary if television is the activity.I am an affectionate person, but I'm also not 'smothering clinger stalker guy'. It makes me feel good to know that I am making the woman I am with feel special. My work is something I enjoy, what I do, not who I am. (In other words, it won't dominate our conversation). I feel that I am knowledgeable about many things, and a genius about nothing.I like to listen to a variety of music, being a child of the 80's, I enjoy that era's music. Industrial, hip-hop, classic rock, heavy metal, etc. Short list of concerts attended within the last 10 years: Blink-Look forward to hearing from you! Something simple, no pressure, someplace quiet so we can get to know each other (meet for drinks, coffee, etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Funk French Italian Soccer / Football
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