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Jefferson, 45
United States, Kansas, McPherson

Offline, last seen Fri, 28 Nov 2025 17:47:55

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Please Read Entire Profile Before you reply..I don't want to hurt any feelings...I know what I want but if you send a message and your not what I am looking for then you must not of read my profileUpdate Sept ***... ...If you only have face pics and no body shots I wont respond...this is a dating site we want to see full picture.. would you rather me show up short and fat or skinny and thin not knowing.. whats average.. some think average is BBW some think its skinny... your average may not be what most people think average is..so look in the mirror bebore saying average and make sure you have pictures on this site showing head to toe.. this way we can see if you are average!!!...............If you say you want to meet and keep changing the plans I wont meet you. I am tired of the games on this site. allot of women are worse then many of us guys. Don't make a promise and then not go through with it cuz it only shows you have something better to do or someone better to meet and also doesn't look good to cancel over and over.... I can say i have probably had about 10 girls in the past month already do this crap to me and kinda sick of it. I get allot of responses saying they are intimidated by me, I am a good guy but I will tell you how it is upfront is all! I like to have fun and I like to spend money. I live alone have no children and I do work a day job and also own my own web design company on the side. I would like to find friends for right now and see where it goes. We all want a relationship but I feel lets build a good friendship then see what happens, I travel allot on my bike too so hopefully you like new adventures as I do. I design websites for my side business and I know allot about computers. I love almost all music anything from Country to Hair Bands and Classic Rock. What makes me unique is I am a very down to earth nice guy yet the type of guy who likes to do things and get away on weekend bike trips, camping, bike rallies, amish country, bed and breakfast's, I love history and learning new things about history. I also like to try new places to eat, some reason I like food! but I like to eat a wide variety of food except for seafood not much into that however i will eat crab legs and shrimp but not much anything else. I am not into endless *** texting. At first I prefer to get to know each other on the phone a little then plan to meet. Endless phone calls and texting leads no where I am looking for a women to be mine and why waste the time on the phone when we can meet in person and talk. I have 1 dog and a cat so I like pets if you have them. I do not have any children and dont mind if you do. But at my age I am not really sure if i would like children now, I have thought about that but for the most part, being in my 40's and having a child now might not be a good thing, plus the world we live in now is not what it was 20 years ago. so Most likely no children for me. If god intended me to have children I would of had them years ago. My pets are my children now! My Family is big I am the baby out of 6 kids, my father passed away in ***and my mom is still with us... Nothing like sitting by the ocean drinking a glass of wine or a favorite beer and enjoying the company of a woman (hopefully my main woman) and the sounds of the ocean!I like to have fun and am not about the games, if you're looking for a nice down to earth happy guy then that's me but if you're looking for MR GOLD or Ken Types or some muscle guy then move on. So many women on all these dating sites are too picky. I am just as happy alone as I can be with a women, lets face it we are all getting older and we would all like to share our lives with someone.and yes I do like my women average build (a few extra pounds is ok), I hate to say this because some of the much heavier women (BBW) think I am missing out, well if I never liked heavy set women why would I start now after 45 years. it's just not what I am looking for, to each their own. sorry For a first date if its warm go for a ride to a favorite resturant and talk and get to know eachother. Or if its cold outside I dont mind meeting at a restuarant or a starbucks to talk. Maybe go see a movie but cant really talk during a movie. the best things would be a concert or going to a club to see a band to get to know eachother.I say we do something off the wall meet at a place that most do not meet at, Sure I like coffee, beer and food but come on lets Be creative!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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