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Benton, 43
United States, Kansas, Leawood

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About Me

Hello everyone. Here's a little bit about myself. I've been married once, but divorced since ***. No kids yet, but looking forward should that day come. I wouldnt mind dateing a woman with kids, but in the long run, I want some of my own. I was really shy as a kid, but i've grown into my own and have no problem meeting people. I do meet alot of people, but thought maybe if I throw it all out there, this online dating thing might narrow it down a bit to someone with the same interest. Not to say, opposites attract, they really do. As a person, im kind and nice to almost everyone. Some people just dont deserve it right from the get go, but generally im good to everyone. I work hard and i've had some of the toughest jobs known to man, but loved it. I work now for USDA. My job is very stable but demanding. I have a ton of friends(which can't believe im single). I have an awesome family, but they all live down south. Im very honest, giving, dependable, outgoing and funny. I love the outdoors. The mountains, ocean, rivers, lakes, snow and im a big fan of cold weather over a hot day. I love to travel and I have been fortunate to cover alot of ground, but theres still alot to see and I dont plan on stopping anytime soon. I try to keep myself physically fit so that im always ready for my next adventure, but staying home by the fire with the right person and a good movie makes my top 10 list as well. Age to me really isnt a concern, if the attraction, common ground and adventurous nature is there, lets talk. If not, then thats ok, my outdoor lifestyle I choose to live isnt for everyone. Theres alot to me, so if you have any questions just ask. Im an open book. One last thing, I recently shaved off the stash, so I do look a little different. Laid back, getting to know someone. But if the sparks are there then go with it, Im easy. Movies are fun, but it dosent give you a chance to talk to someone and get to know them.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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