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Shelby, 44

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About Me

What to say? If my friends were writing this, they would do a much better job. I'm more of a people person. So here goes.I'm a full time dad monday through friday. I have two great boys that are my world. I spend my week running the house and working full time. Like any single parent. lucky for me I know how to cook. I like being on the water. I like going to the movies. I like going out to dinner. meeting for a****ail, or coffee.Just as happy to spend an evening home with a bottle of wine. I am real easy going. have a great sense of humor.most of all honest. I don't play games thats just for the kids. I would like to meet someone that would treat me as well as I would treat them. with respect and honesty. looking for someone that just enjoys good company. and see what happens.If you want to hear more you will have to ask me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ahern

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    I am a man who works hard and loves people. I also love to relax at home. I keep my home and yard neat. When you own a home there is always something to do. I am quite handy and love learning new things. Electrical, carpentry, plumbing ... yep I can get my hands dirty doing all those things. That being said I don't like heights much so I do have my limitations! I can also fiddle with the car but never have the right tools so that usually ends up in the shop.I am a techno guru. I really am loaded up with technical skills and I teach some of them online. Also am MCDBA and worked on some big .com projects on the developer/database side. When it comes to solving computing problems, analyzing data and/or building things I'm an expert.I also am a humanist and teach children. I love working with kids and learners and I love my own children deeply. There is nothing better than when a child gives you the only thing they have to give. Melt my heart every time!I like nice drives and day trips...more of seeing all those people out there. It doesn't really matter what we are doing I know how to have fun. Even in the bad situations I make the best of it because that's what I am presented with at the time and darnit if I am going to be dragged down.Domestically I enjoy cooking and eating...and I enjoy cooking for others too. O.K. maybe too much cooking and eating LOL. Who doesn't like to eat right? Very few. I spent 10 years as a chef earlier in life and it still pervades my mindset. I guess domestic skills stay fresh because you don't really put them aside. I have done a lot of theater but not in quite a few years now. I love the arts and humanities and am open to exploring the breath and depth of the cultures of the world.I'd like to find an equal to build and share a life with. It's not easy the older we get. I've met a lot of great women and am grateful for that...for whatever reasons it hasn't worked out YET. It's tough with kids and careers and houses and distance and emotions and ...I'd really like to have a chance to let my guard down, be free and enjoy it. But the guard does not just get shed automatically and I am not as good as I would like to be at managing my boundaries. It's always a work in progress but I do try and articulate what's going on for me as best I can. Certain things have to happen over the course of time. The person I need to be with will be patient with me and communicate with me as I will do with her. She is intelligent self-aware and honest. She has good moral character and spirituality. the idea of a first date is quite simply to enjoy ourselves. Let's be real we can do that in a zillion different ways.

  • Thatguyvm

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    Man. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 21-30

    Hi! My name is Thatguyvm. I am never married other african man without kids from Lansing, Kansas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

  • Burt

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 42-52

    Fairly easy going, laid back for the most part. Intelligent and intellectual. Guess I'm pretty funny. Usually can make people laugh, and it's usually intentional. :) Sarcastic to a large degree. But a live and let live kinda guy too. I work out a few times a week. I'm not fanatical about it, and I'll never be all puffed up. But I like to stay toned up enough that I'm not too embarrassed to go to the beach. LOL I stay around 200lbs. My interests are too wide and varied to list. But I usually do very, very well at anything I set my mind on. And I think these last two sentences are what makes me unique. I've been told I'm full of surprises. I have a huge thirst for knowledge and a hunger for self growth. I like to get out and do things often. But I also value and appreciate a day or a weekend in just relaxing. Truthfully, it's not so much what you are doing, but who you are doing it with. If it's the right person, ANYTHING can be the most fun thing in the world at that time. I wanna find that person. That doesn't mean I want to go into anything with anyone expecting that right away. I hate how you have to list what you are looking for. How about this, I'm looking to meet people. I hope interesting people. Might turn into something, might not. Might make a very good friend. Might only meet someone that I see occasionally at a bar and we buy each other a beer. And might make that friend that turns into the one you get a drunk text from every nine months at 2am asking how ya been. And it's all ok. Some food somewhere. Some music. Show ya some of my favorite places or learn about yours. Just get to know a lil about each other. Rather do something where we can talk, get to know each other a lil. Even during the day. Not so much a late night, loud club.

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