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Ferdie, 43
United States, Kansas, Girard

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About Me

I’m a mix of country and beach life. I want to live self sufficiently, and find a partner, lover and best friend that enjoys the same. A woman that I think is best described as a country hippie girl with the values, morals and attributes of both. I enjoy spending time with the woman I love. I believe if we love each other we are responsible for each other’s welfare, happiness, try to make decisions that are best for both of us, be monogamous, support each other and aspire to make each other’s hopes and aspirations a reality. A woman that realizes and appreciates what a good hearted man is worth and I believe that as well. I live on the river, in a beautiful natural, unique setting near the beach, so I appreciate spending time in nature. Friends tell me I have a million dollar view. I realize that I am very fortunate and try to be conscious of not taking it for granted. One thing I am missing is a woman to spend the rest of our lives with, through the thick and thin. My family shares the same property but not the same house, so its kind of farm like. I work here as well, so I am definitely a homebody. It’s easy to be when I have most things I need and desire at my disposal. My house is oriented towards the outdoors and nature, with an almost wraparound porch and rocking chairs, maybe even a rocking chair for two someday. I have gardens, fruit trees, chickens and enough space for more gardens, greenhouses, aquaponics, goats etc. I am currently building a house for my mom, so I am busy but not too busy for a special woman and to enjoy life. I try to live a simple, country life, and eat food with organic or natural ingredients, staying away from processed food. Bonus points if you know what GMOs are. For the most part I would rather we prepare a meal at home than go out to eat. I have sailed my own boat to the Bahamas many times and look forward to going again. I am looking for an affectionate woman who isn’t materialistic and enjoys the simple country life. Someone that believes in trying to live green, eat organic, live off the land, enjoys nature, old fashioned values, loves being at home, a little traveling, etc. A setting where we can get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Rock Chinese Japanese Korean Adventure Drama Martial Arts Rodeo Volleyball
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