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Matthew, 42
United States, Kansas, Girard

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My headline explains a lot. If you can't be anything else in life ... be kind. I try desperately to be so every second of everyday. I'm laid back, easy going, and a sucker for good times with good friends laughing until it hurts. I'm a huge fan of outdoor patio dining and (while I worry about publicly admitting this) my tastes in movies range from Anchorman to Notting Hill; Borat to Love Actually;; and Click to Wall-E.When I'm not busy teaching in a formal setting, I travel a bit doing motivational speaking / leadership training / team building. Shorts and flip-flops; suit and tie; makes no matter to me - I'm perfectly comfortable in practically any environment doing any activity.I find myself at the gym quite often, but with no goal of being overly "swollen" (muscles nor ego). I'll spare you the bathroom mirror selfie (from reading so many profiles, it appears a true sign of "douchebaggery"). hahahahaIf you're tired of games, lies, arrogance, and classless requests for pics and hook-ups and *** rather enjoy a good time laughing with someone who values treating people (ALL people - not just the one's we're trying to impress) with kindness and dignity - you certainly should take a chance. First dates should be real. No need to swoop in aboard a private helicopter (a la the Bachelor) and go places we'd NEVER go again (sorry, ABC). If you like to skate, let's skate - if you like to bowl, let's bowl - if you like Top Golf, let's golf - if you like skydiving, forget it, never in a million years...hahahahaYou should enter feeling confident and comfortable and walk away feeling respected and not led on by tricks and gimmicks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Canadian Italian Mexican South American Turkish Dirt Bike Racing
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