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Joahaz, 42
United States, Kansas, Garnett

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About Me

I'm active. I like snowboarding, and fishing, and hiking. I like to do fun adventurous stuff. I like road trips too. At times, I rather enjoy just sitting, gathering my thoughts and watching the world go around, whatever it be at the moment, people, birds flying, the wether; usually with a cup of coffee in hand it seems at those times. I don't really use the term down time, since my mind is usually very active. I don't always need to talk, I'm a good listener and I enjoy listening to others, and music. I do like 80's quite a bit, and some classical and electro-pop and some world music. I'm good to listen to anything, though I do know quickly what I do and don't like. In the evening I'm usually listening to some music, or cooking, or tinkering on little projects. Sometimes I watch jeopardy, and sometimes I get into a good book. I'm intelligent, I can read and write well and am somewhat philosophical at times, and spend time reflecting on what my feelings and insights are telling me, life isn't just pop culture, after all. Maybe that's my down/ recharge time. I think spending a lot of time in the ocean and out of doors and in natural places has taught me to appreciate reality. I do like culture, I think it is important to explore and be moved by different influences, beyond just that of your home town. I like to travel because it does put you in contact with new influences. I would like to do some more traveling. When I'm not out on an adventure I'm pretty happy at home, I am somewhat of a homebody, domesticity doesn't scare or bother me. I like maintaining home and making it a happy and productive place. It is important to me to have harmony at home, I need the positive vibe and good intentions to flow through. I'll leave it at that for now. So, ask me, ask me, ask me, because if its not love... Best to ya! Possibly lunch or dinner and communicating to start. I'm pretty adventurous, so anything is possible that seems fun and entertaining.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Chinese South American Thai Drama Romance
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