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Ruben, 43
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

Hey there. I am a really nice guy seeking to meet new people and hopefully make some friends in the area. Not looking for hook ups or one night stands, though it would be nice to meet a decent guy that I could spend time getting to know. I work hard and odd hours but always have time to offer someone decent that's willing to take the time to get to know me.I enjoy walks on the beach, nature hikes, historical sites, road trips (when time allows), going out for dinner and a movie or an occasional drink or coffee. I love music of most kinds but listen mostly to techno/dance, dub-step or anything with a high beat. Not into the club scene as I out grew that years back. I like to be more settled and laid back. Would be great to find someone I could just do the simple things with and have fun doing them. That is something that would be discussed when it makes it to that point. A nice dinner and walk on the beach where we could talk and get to know more about each other would be ideal.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Metal Rap Gardening German Mexican
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