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Hartley, 42
United States, Kansas, Derby

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Dec 2025 22:06:51

About Me

looking for a poz friendly guy to get to know and have fun for starters. See where things go from there. Is that a good start? ;-) I just want to slow dance with a love... So hard to find lol. By the way i hate filling these things out lol Nice conversation over dinner is a good start

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

House Punk Rock British Caribbean German Mexican Portuguese Archery Baseball
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