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Lane, 45
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

If I share all here now, what will we have to talk later? I am an open book. You need only show interest in the topic and the story will be read to you. I am an Aries, please do your homework! Connecting is all important for me. I am seeking someone who responds to the fact that I enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but whom is willing to help keep dependency in check in the relationship so that we do not lose our identities as individuals and whose character is deserving of my loyalty and affection.Get to know me and find out what a great catch I am. I won't waste your time if you don't waste mine.I have the common sense that affords me the ability to do whatever it is I wish to do and do it very well. Think 'Jack of all trades' and you will have a clearer understanding. Or maybe you recall the TV series The Pretender? There really is nothing I cannot accomplish once I know the parameters. Unlike many, I do not fear failing for I always take away more knowledge and experience than having done nothing at all.Although I would prefer to be on a secluded lake away from mayhem, I do appreciate what City living has to offer; museums, theatre, fine dining and live entertainment. I would not go as far to say that camping is my passion but I do prefer rugged over luxury. The smell of bacon and coffee over a campfire is an aphrodisiac for me. Two men, one sleeping bag. It's all about survival! If you have read this far I owe it to you to share that I am healthy POZ. Clear mind, healthy soul, happy heart.If you are fearful, educate yourself. I did! If you are reckless, please block my profile.I have taken the time to get to know me, perhaps you should as well. A walk thru the museum of art and history.Lunch in the park. An evening cuddled together.Paragliding off the Point.I'm low key and prefer the simple pleasures in life, spontaneous and unpretentious.Lasagna. Fried okra. Key lime pie.Red wine. Dark beer. Tequila.(apparently I am not clear. The above are my favorite weaknesses.) Be well, be happy, be grateful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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