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Lane, 45
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

If I share all here now, what will we have to talk later? I am an open book. You need only show interest in the topic and the story will be read to you. I am an Aries, please do your homework! Connecting is all important for me. I am seeking someone who responds to the fact that I enjoy the reassurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but whom is willing to help keep dependency in check in the relationship so that we do not lose our identities as individuals and whose character is deserving of my loyalty and affection.Get to know me and find out what a great catch I am. I won't waste your time if you don't waste mine.I have the common sense that affords me the ability to do whatever it is I wish to do and do it very well. Think 'Jack of all trades' and you will have a clearer understanding. Or maybe you recall the TV series The Pretender? There really is nothing I cannot accomplish once I know the parameters. Unlike many, I do not fear failing for I always take away more knowledge and experience than having done nothing at all.Although I would prefer to be on a secluded lake away from mayhem, I do appreciate what City living has to offer; museums, theatre, fine dining and live entertainment. I would not go as far to say that camping is my passion but I do prefer rugged over luxury. The smell of bacon and coffee over a campfire is an aphrodisiac for me. Two men, one sleeping bag. It's all about survival! If you have read this far I owe it to you to share that I am healthy POZ. Clear mind, healthy soul, happy heart.If you are fearful, educate yourself. I did! If you are reckless, please block my profile.I have taken the time to get to know me, perhaps you should as well. A walk thru the museum of art and history.Lunch in the park. An evening cuddled together.Paragliding off the Point.I'm low key and prefer the simple pleasures in life, spontaneous and unpretentious.Lasagna. Fried okra. Key lime pie.Red wine. Dark beer. Tequila.(apparently I am not clear. The above are my favorite weaknesses.) Be well, be happy, be grateful.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Kamren from Derby | Man | 45 years old | Sagittarius
    Kamren

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    Man. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey guys!! Haven't had a great deal of luck meeting the "right guy"...or ANY guy for that matter. I work a great deal, but, can always find time to meet up for lunch, a movie, etc... I would like to meet someone who is relaxed, comfortable in their skin, understanding of my current situation and someone who likes to just "hang out". I love movies, plays, concerts and would rarely say no to an invite to anyone of those things. I like MOST music. If you'd like to chat, pleases say so. Send me a message and say hi. I'm friendly and down to earth. Easy to get along with, I promise. I guess the ideal first date would be a nice dinner, a couple of drinks, a nice walk around a park just getting to know each other.

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  • Pace from Derby | Man | 41 years old | Libra
    Pace

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let's see....so many interests....about me:I like to play and watch sports. I'm trying to get back in shape after acl surgery.I like road trips, and anything outdoors, especially if its near water.honest guy. tough to meet good guys who want to actually date *** jumping in bed after 4 minutes. First date? something very low key and where we can talk. Decide if we want to hangout more, and the next dates would get bigger and maybe more adventurous or actual "dates"But first date? dinner, coffee or a walk?

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  • Deshawn from Derby | Man | 41 years old | Scorpio
    Deshawn

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    Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like to hang out with friends and family. Just graduated with a bachelors in anthropology. Like to Watch TV, garden, enjoy home improvement projects around the house. Hoping to meet new and exciting individuals.I love the outdoors, and have had the opportunity to check out a few of the metro parks. I love to visit the zoo, I could spend hours watching the primates. Really not into the bar scene, but do enjoy going out every now and then. Between work, home projects and family I find I have little spare time. I need to find more time for myself and that special someone. I love new adventures, exploring new places and learning local history. One of my favorite things to do is check out architecture, new and old, well kept or falling victim to time... every building (public and private) has a story to tell!IF YOU DON'T HAVE A PHOTO, PLEASE GET ONE AND CHECK BACK WITH ME THEN. :-) Get a bite to eat, ease into conversation. Next date would be something outdoors, explore a new or familiar place. Seeking friends, dating, etc.

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