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Manley, 45
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

I'm a person of varied interests. I love to read and play video games. I like to stay at home and have quiet time just as much as I like to go out for a night on the town. I like going out to the movies and going for hikes in the great parks located around the area. I'm currently only 2 semesters away from getting my Bachelors in Psychology at OSU. After that; my plans are to get my Masters in Clinical Social Work. End game is to become an Independent Licensed Social Worker (ILSW) so that I can be a couples therapist specializing in gay couples. I like to listen to alternative music, but have been known to listen to everything from country to thrash. What makes me a unique person is my outlook on life and the world; as I hate the world and love it in the same breath. People in general are really messed up, but can not seem to fathom themselves as different from the norm until they can experience the world through the eyes of another. For the first date we could start the evening off at a nice local coffee cafe and if things are going well and we both would like too we could have a nice quiet dinner, hopefully Italian with a nice, sweet, white wine. We would take plenty of time so that we could savor the meal and have ample time to talk with each other. Maybe after our relaxing dinner we could take a nice long walk in a local park, to be closer to nature as we learn more about each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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