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Shallum, 41
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

Looking for an honest guy who is comfortable with who he is and knows what he wants out of life and out of a relationship. I am looking for someone who is comfortable showing their feelings and emotions and knowing that no one in this world is perfect. I'm not into material things and I would not expect the guy that I date to be either. I have what I need and to be honest, the best way to impress me is by being yourself, being upfront, and living the life that makes YOU happy and eventually that life will have both of US in it. I like a guy for who he is and not what he has.I’m not into games I’m not looking for just sex. It's not the glue that holds the relationship together so if that's all your looking for the best of luck to you.I'm not a huge fan of going to the bars, going out once in a while is fine but honestly it’s not how I see a relationship begin healthy. I'm confident in who I am I may not look like a model but I’m a sincere guy who wants to find a guy that is similar to me. I'm caring, understanding, and compassionate. I'm looking for someone to share life with. If you wanna know more about me just ask. A first date should be something fun and simple, going out to eat, someplace quit, getting to know each other talking a walk, whats your idea of a first date ?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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